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There's this girl I was friends with in highschool and then after highschool she moved in with her grandparents in another town so she could go to the college there and ever since she moved our friendship had been different. It's like we are not best friends anymore. I've noticed that every time she calls me all she wants to talk about is drugs,drinking,parting,and sex and we get into arguments over the phone everytime she calls becouse I don't want to talk about that kind of stuff and when she lived here we never got into any kind of fight ever and lately that's all we do is fight and argue. Then about 3 weeks ago she called and said she was coming over to hang out for a few hours but I kept having to call her to see if she was coming and she said she was hanging out with somebody that use to be one of my friends to but she said if she came over that friend of hers that I don't like had to come over so I said she can't come over becouse I didn't get along with that other girl and then she was going to bring her over to my house even after I told her to. Then last night she came over just to talk and didn't even let me know before she came and when she came over she looked like she was high on something. what should I do?
It sounds like this girl is headed down the wrong path. I know you had a great friendship with her before, but you can't help it that she's made poor choices with her life.
Maybe the next time you talk to her you should (make sure she's sober first) talk to her and explain to her that you're worried about her.
Tell her that you would like to help her and that you miss her friendship. If she doesn't take this seriously and she doesn't want your help then that's all you can do.
If she laughs it off or gets defensive, then I think it would be best if you parted different ways. She's an adult now, and she has to want to work out her problems. If she doesn't then there isn't much you can do and you shouldn't stick around and let her treat you badly and hurt you.
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