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Laurrrrrren.
I guess you could say I'm pretty normal. I like girlie things, but I enjoy being with guys & doing guy stuff too. Guys are my favorite. Some girls can tend to not care as much as guys. I am always thinking about everything, a lot of teachers tell me I have a scientific mind. My GPA is 4.0 & I like a guy that's smart. He has to be able to carry on a conversation. I have the urge to run away a lot. I just got my braces and people tell me I look good in them but whatever. & If you don't like a girl for that, you're shallow. I'm sarcastic. I want to be a lawyer, I can argue very well and that's where my passion is. I don't like my dad. Everyone says I remind them of "Rory" from Gilmore Girls.

I love::
the beach
New York
having dreams
accomplishing things
talking to people
being me
kissing
cheerleading [no, that doesn't make me a ditz]
car rides
sweet guys
the color pink
xanga&myspace [ask for my usernames for those]
music


I'm a SUCKER for a guy that talks sweet. It doesn't take much to melt my heart.

advice

Like any other annoying question...here it goes..

There's this guy..Scott..wow what a hottie..I've liked him since forever..7th grade..he gave me my first kiss..It wasn't even a kiss..more like a makeout session..but hey, that's even better! ..Turns out, I was just a stupid bet he won against the other guys..He said he was sorry..I accepted..we went out...broke up..went out, broke up..All this time while we broke up, I still had feelings for him...He said he still liked me, too...A couple of months ago, we went out..and this time, my feelings were even stronger..It felt like love..(I'm in 9th grade now) but he broke up with me because he said we weren't spending enough time together and that we were just "friends with benefits" I still like him..I really do. I am jealous when I know he's hanging out with other girls..I become depressed. I don't know what to do though...I live so far away from him and we don't even go to the same school...What do i do?

Awwwwe.

I know the feeling, I'm going through that right now too. All you can do is wait! That bet thing was pretty low but I forgive too so hmm. If it's meant to be, and your feelings really are true love you'll end up being together some how. It's fate! You can't ruin fate and you can't change it either. You could ask him about how he feels for you but be expect the worse, okay? Don't get hurt if he tells you he only wants to have a sexual relationship. You have to figure out what you want out of it and if you want that then you're on the right track but if you want more you need to tell him that and maybe you two aren't meant to be. I wish you the best of luck!

Love always,
Lauren

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ok sry this is long but i really need help. ok im in 7th grade and this year i met my best friend ever hes likt the best person you will ever meet. his name is james and he is in 8th grade. we have been so close since the begining of the year and like we would call eachother evry day and talk for like an hour. and liek he is a realy hott guy so yeah he has had gf's like only 3 this year so far bc they r long relationships but recently he asked out one of my friends and like now if they get in a fight they blame it on me and all this other junk and like now he hardly calls me nemore liek maybe once a week if even that and liek if they r together then he like barley talks to me he ignores me and he never did that with any of his other gf's and like i dont noe wat to do bc im losing my best friend and i honeslty can live without him. so pls help me what do i do. thnks

Hi gorgeous!

Awe, I'm sorry! This sucks. Well really there is only one thing you can do. Talk to him about it. Be like "James, I don't wanna lose you as a best friend because you mean so much to me but it seems like we are losing our friendship since you've been with ________( girlfriend's name!) and I hate it. Do you feel like we've been losing each other too? Or what's up? Is something going on?" Maybe something else in his life is distracting him, it might not be the girl. Just talk it out and if he still doesn't do anything or he doesn't see any difference there isn't much you can do babe. I'm sorry. It will hurt to lose a best friend but there isn't much else you can do! The best of luck!

Love always,
Lauren

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