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theres this girl who used to be my friend last year.. she only talked to me once this year and we're in the same club. and she acts like she doesnt even notice im there. its weird.. like what did i do? at first i didnt think much about it, but now like i was talking to my friends and stuff and she'd just butt in and talk to one of them, and wont even notice im there, it seems.

okay.. what the heck did i do? should i ask or just ignore her too? or any other ideas?? i kinda dont like her cuz shes sort of like a showoff, and she always acts so perfect and junk. pissed me off sorta since last year, but i guess it was just jealousy, since the guy i liked liked her.

AH getting off topic. anyway, answer my qeustion! heh

Ok, i had a similiar situation, my bff since i was 3 was always like the center of attention and i hated her when she was with other people because she didnt really pay attention to me, and then during the summer she was going into a new school and she would never hang out with me, always blow me off and act like we were emeny's for a while i took it and tried really hard for the friendship to work, then i realiezed she wasnt worth it if she didnt want my friendship, now we arnt really much of anything and i have new friends who are always there for me, my advice is to confront her and if she doesnt put forth effort to stay friends say goodbye and start a new friendship.

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I was a new student this year. And this wednesday, my friends talkeed to me in private saying that i had over-sarcasm, but then again, i got the sarcasm influence from them, especially from clara, who became my best friend in school. since then, they stopped hanging with me and i didn't mind them much. i talked to them sometimes, but only sometimes. i got really miserable because i felt like i was losing my friends whom i'm really close to. last week, we were just so close as besties. then thursay, it was the day before our fieldtrip, i asked her if we could sit together in the bus, which i thought she would say yes to because she asked me months ago if we could sit together in the fieldtrip. but sad to say, she said she was already sitting with isabelle and i got so hurt. i got really mad at her, but i didn't show it on the next day, the fieldtrip. me and clara were so close, like peas in a pod. when there are events in school and i bring my camera, both of us are always together. and during the fieldtrip, everybody else had a partner, except me. and it was a sad situation for me. i hung out with other people in the fieldtrip and i talked to clara sometimes. i saw all my pics, and clara wasn't in any of them, not even one. but then my problem is, after they told me about my over-sarcasm, i wanted to change and be friends with her again. but after her just leaving me aside, i dont know what to think anymore. she was one of the best friends i ever had. but she was one of the people who hurt me in my life, and its like i'm losing her. but is she worth it? because i'm not sure anymore. i'd appreciate good advice. thanks in advanced.

-samantha

Dear Samantha,

I almost understand completely because i was in a similar situation over the summer. My best friend for 15 years and i realized she was going to a different school. She and I didnt think much of it and it didnt seem to effect us at all, until she invited me to go with her on a 2 day trip to an island about 30 minutes away.I say yes and we went, now before this she had always gotten new bff's every year but still kept me in that group, i never really cared, until she found this new girl who seemed like she was completely trying to take over. Anyway i went with her and we met a girl name "Vanessa" and they hit it off so did i but i wasnt as obbssesed as she was, anyway long story made short when she started her new school she didnt want anything to do with me, at all, and she blamed it on us being in different schools, yet she somehow had found time to spend every day of every weekend with Vannessa, it hurt me and she was forgetting me after all of our years, i tried changing for her and she didnt seem to notice me at all, then we got into a huge blowout fight that wen on forever. Now we are just out of each others lives, we see each other now and then and its just a hi and bye. it doesnt hurt me anymore because i realize how many other true friends i had and how i was the one she would come too when others let her down and whenever i needed her she didnt really seem to care. Just realize that you need to find other friends and leave her beacuse if she was truly your friend she would be coming after you when she realizes you can move on.


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