Hey i'm Toni and i'm a junior in high school :] I had one of these before but i ended it cause i didnt feel like keeping up with it, and people started asking rediculous things ... but i figured i'd try it again cause i LOVE giving advice. If you ask anyone i'm prolly the easiest person to talk to .. so dont be afraid to ask me anything :]
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ok toni, so heres whats up, the other night i had a few pople over and it was chill we were kinda just haning out nothign special but then someone got a call from someone else, i was friends with person who called so i said yea sure come on over, but they were bringing somone else, someone that i have no problem against but she seems to have a problem with me, so they get here the first person says hi wahts up i answer back and then i just kinda sit around talking to pople and looking at the fire, pretty soon its done people leave and whatever but the stupid bitch never even said hi to me and it was my fucking house, but yea so i got over that but at night when i was chillin i got a text from the person that i said could come over saying it was really rude of me to be so mean and not say anything and that i should have been niceer because the other person felt really uncomfortable because i "stared her down" which i did none of but it really confused me because i didnt think i was rude i personally thought it was the girls fault because she went in the corner and didnt say one thing to me even though i invited her to my hosue so i got kinda heated and i called this other person up, i asked if she was "fucking serious" and shes liek yea i am that was really rude of you blah blah blah and idk what to do, because i didnt think i did anythign wrong and now all the ppl thats shes freinds with are gonna like hate me because shes who she is, and shell start spreading rumors liek she alwyas does and shes gonna talk abotu me behind my back and make me look like a bitch like usual and personally i really do not think that i am, i am a genuinaly nice person who basically gets along with everyone and i hate this, because this girl and i have always been kidna freinds, but only really when its good for her, and then she doesnt like me for some unknown reason and she doesnt tlak to me ever so thats why i didnt rteally want her at my hosue, if you get my drift, but once she was there i was fine wiht her whatever, but please help ton, its really bothering me and i have absolutely no idea what to do, i try to be nice to poeple and it backfires in my face....help please! (link)
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ok ok ok FIRST of all if you put yourself down for this (which i dont think you are) but if your having thoughts that maybe you did do something wrong and your just not realizing it .. DONT. cause thats so fucking immature of those "friends" to even say that. never mind the fact that the one who your closer with had the fucking decencey (i dont know if i spelt that right) to even text you that at all. your right, it is your house, and if you both know your on sketchy terms its her job to say hey thanx for inviting me. or at least say bye thanx for having me over. its not that hard to do, and it wasnt ur fault at all. you shouldnt know what to do, cause there really is nothing you can do ... you didnt know she was coming over so you have every right to keep to yourself. i mean, if you did invite her like one on one personally then .. sure maybe u coulda said something .. but thats obvious .. if she was with her friend her friend (whos urs) should have made her confortable ... thats her job too. so she shouldnt be bitching to you about it. plus, if you think she has a problem with you, or if you know she does, why wouldd you talk. that dosent make sense. that might start shit. if she knows you guys are on weird terms then obviously her not talking is something she should do. and learn how to do. cause its nothing to make someone like you feel shitty about ... cause its not something that should even make you upset at all. people can be so rediculous sometimes. do what i would do .. text this girl and just be like listen i didnt mean to be a bitch to you if thats what it looked like cause i really didnt mean for me to seem that way .. i just didnt think you liked me and i just kept to myself. and tell her not to go jumping to conclusions about staring you down and all that shit ... cause thats just starting drama right there and it just makes people upset. if she dosent forgive you then shes not a friend .. and if your other true friend or the one who you talk to more goes against you you should think twice about that relationship too. i hope i helped tho =/ need anything else just hit me back.
-toni-
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