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I have a friend who likes to do everything that I do. She always wants us to go shopping and buy the same shirt, or wear the same color shoes, etc. It just feels like she's always around. It's not that I don't enjoy her company. I just want to be my own person. Also, because she's always with me, my other friends are feeling left out. What should I do so that my friend will give me some space? Please don't say "Just drop her" because I'm not that mean. Thank you. (link)
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Well if she's buying the same shirt and wears the same color shoes and stuff then that just means she looks up to you. She likes your style and wants to be like you cause she thinks you're cool. Just make some plans to do stuff with your other friends. If your friend that wont give you space asks if you wanna go do something with her, just say you have other plans. I know with her doing the same stuff you do and wearing the same stuff you do probably annoys you, but It's not a bad thing. She'll get over it sometime, because people change.
Just make more plans with your other friends than your friend that wont give you space. Goodluck
-J
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I've been best friends with my friend for now 3 yrs.. & we're not your average type of bff's we do everything together , get into trouble together, talk about everything we're basiclly like sisters but lately I've been noticing her act diffrent.. she barely picks up my phone calls anymore and never calls back..takes a long time to respond to my text messages & I haven't seen her in over a week..I've asked her several times if somethings wrong or if I've done something to upset her but she responds with the same thing everytime I ask her which is no everythings fine. But its not like her to act like this..I don't want to believe in the fact that maybe our closeness has gottn to her and maybe she's annoyed? I don't want to lose the friendship.. please help? (link)
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The poster above me is right of course. If your friend has a boyfriend, then that could be the reaason? I know my best friend and i have been friends since before i started school, and i'm 15 now. I've been dating my current boyfriend for over a year and its been a serious relationship. And since we started dating me and my best friend hasn't hung out like we used to. I used to call her all the time and talk to her on facebook, but now i dont call anyone or even get on facebook. If your friend has a bf then maybe shes too busy with him. But if thats not the case then maybe you two are just getting older and she has found new friends? I've been through alot of friends, either they've moved or they just found new friends. Maybe invite her over and you two can go out and have fun? maybe movies or bowling or something? I hope i helped some! Goodluck!
-J
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