Lizzie Gracie and Nermonie are in a big fight. Nermonie and Gracie are on the same side. Nermonie got a hold of Lizzie's diary and photocopied the page that had all the guys she'd love to date on it then made flyers with her biggest secrets and that list and handed them out to everyone in our grade. It didn't stop there. Nermonie and Gracie made a rumor that Lizzie and her sister masterbate together and finger each other. Everytime Lizzie walks down the halls all the guys hold up a finger and say " Hey Liz, we worship you, " or something like " Finger your sister latley? " Its gotten way outta hand. I asked gracie what her deal was, and she said " Nothing, Lizzie didnt do anything. I just dont like her" Lizzie is my best friends, and I wanna help her. She cries everyday, shes sucha strong person, and very sweet to everyone, but with everyone giving her the dirty looks, holding up the fingering sign, talking bad about her to her face she just cant take it.
I wanna know what I should do to help, everynight I called her and she cries to me for hours about what somebody did to her that day. How can I end this, she never did anything. Please help
Well... You know what they say, "Paybacks a bitch". Personally, an average person would want to just beat the living shit out of a person who would do this but from the sounds of it, your friend isn't the type to fight;; soo, do it the old fashioned way because you got two choices - 1) go to the principle or administrator and tell them everything about the situation. This is also called the "snitch-hitch" where you snitch and basically people either think A) shes a tattle-tale or B) leave her alone or else you might get kicked out of school. However, if you truly-truly and I mean truly want to help your friend, you'll have to take risks. Payback is a bitch && Karma's a mothafucka. Basically what I'm saying, the same thing they did to your friend, flip the scipt right back on them just in a different way. Make bulletins, signs, not flyers, do anything and everything- easy, quick and clever to get back at them. Your friend sounds like a real sweet person, and noone should be taken advantage of like that. The choice is up to you. Talking about it and planning a scheme together would help, trust me.. l0lz. I wish you two the best of luck.
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Someone who sits next to me in one of my classes ONLY talks about herself. ALWAYS! She'll ask how I am and stuff, and even if I say "Not so good.." she'll say "Oh my gosh! I was crying all last night because Andrew (bf) said he can't trust me and idk what to do." It annoys me so much. And it's all dramatic stuff. One day she's bragging about her huge basket of valentine candy and the next she has red eyes from crying all night.
She came in class one day and said "Omg someone told me to leave and I asked why and they said because I always bring drama to the group and I don't!" How do I deal with this?
There will always be a sour apple in the bunch. Be straight forward. Don't lie, just tell her, shes annoying and is truly a flat-out drama queen. Theres really no sweet way of telling a person they're completely annoying, so go with whatever flows out.
Best Drama-Free Wishes~!.. (l0lz)
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My friend has gone through a lot lately. Her mom had breast cancer and went through kemo. Now her dad has cancer and has to go through kemo. How can I help her and her family?
At this point the best thing for you to do it stay by her side. Thats all you really can do. Her parents are going through such a hard situation where undoubtedly it is carrying their daughter right along with them throughout the whole ordeal. Having one parent be diagnosed with cancer is one thing, the treatment is a whole other thing;; worst part of it is, shes having to deal with it coming from BOTH parents. Try talking to her about it, if shes comfortable; talk to her about things that will help her take it off her mind; take her out as much as you can, although she will most likely want to always stay by her parents side. When shes not with them, take her to the movies, bowling even bingo. Just do silly things. Don't forget along each minute that passes she will be thinking "Is this the minute my mom/dad is going to die?"; be ready to buy a load of tissue boxes and have a ton of soaked shoulders. This is no easy job. Give her all the words of encouragement, go to your local library, rent out books with quotes or better yet, print a few out; including poems.
When it comes to her family, the best thing you can possibly to for them; is doing what you're doing right now, keeping them in your prayers; visiting as often as you can and giving them all the treats && goodies they want. Don't forget to throw a few kicks && giggles for old times sake~!
Best Of Luck~!
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My bestfriend and her boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now. Problem is: he says he likes me! And I'm kind of into him too! I don't know what to do, thats like my bestfriend. I sure don't want to ruin our friendship but oh my goodness I am really into this boy!
Chica.. you have to realize that you are seriously playing with fire. Although guys can be VERY tempting, majority of the time, they're seriously not worth it/the trouble. Ask yourself if the friendship is worth more than the temptation. Always keep in mind also.. "What they do with you, is what they'll do to you."
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sorry this is long, but plz help!
this sounds like a total classic! anyway i have
this friend named "tyler", and we've been friends for about 2 years now. in the begining, he liked me as just a friend, then he said he liked me {like puppy love}, and now he says he's in love with me. i feel the same way, and yes, i've told him that. however, im a sarcastic person, and he says that when i say "i love you" he can't believe i'm serious. this just bugs me, because i am! i've even asked him what would i have to do to prove it? he says he wants me to be his girlfriend, but he wants to wait awhile, possibly somewhere around a year. but i can't wait that long! i've flirt with him all the time and he still doesn't get it. i know he's a little scared, because he has never had a girlfriend and has never kissed anyone. but what can i do to prove once and for all that i'm not joking? should i make the first big move? and if so what should i do? and what sould i not do?
thanx= i rate high
sorry it was long!
I know how you feel! I fell head over heels with my bestfriend Craig and he felt the same way but was scared of the commitment, now? We've been together for 8 months and counting. I did whatever I had to do to try and get him and even that didn't work. But when I was just about to give up on getting him, thats when he realized what he had and that was when he went for me. My advice to you..
Be sure that your really in love with him and realize that if you make any move the friendship is on the line. But if you truly love this one, you'll do whatever you need to get him. Don't be scared to get him caught on the hook, do what you gotta do to prove to him how you feel but also be patient with him. If hes not ready now, and you try to force him into it, he could fall a stray when you guys start going out and that'll bring too many problems. Sooner or later if he doesn't go for it when you've done everything in your power, you'll eventually begin to give up and thats when all of it will hit him dead in the face. He'll realize what he has and realize he was such an idiot for not seeing/noticing what you were all doing for him (just like my sweetieboo). I wish you all the luck in the world and baby-chica, in the end he'll be worth the trouble, I promise!
!*xOxOx*!
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Well i need peoples opinions... ok so there is this kid that i like lets call him fred.. well today in the morning fred came over to talk to me... (i like fred and he knows that i like him) and he stayed talking to me for a while.. and then he said ill be right back and then you saw him walking with someone else and like he like ditched you for her... and like he has ditched you before.. and you have talked to him about it before and how it gets you upset.. should i be hurt? mad? that hes kinda ignoring me and always going to he? please help me.. 14/f
Now lil chica, what ever happens, you cannot get upset about this (although all chicas do), your not with him, in other words, he's not your boyfriend and your not his girlfriend (yet). So keep doing you and find a guy to talk to while he talks to another chick, notice his reaction...w/b
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