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Hey I'm Sam I was put on this planet to give good advice and thats what I'm here for. I'm 13 and go to Forestwood Middle School. All your questions are safe with me.I wouldnt tell anyone ssssssssshhhhhhhhhh.
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Basically, here's the deal. Long and complicated, unfortunately -- and if it matters, I'm 18 and F.
* My two best friends, who I'll call A and B, have been fighting for years. After some stuff went on with B's mom, who A's always hated, B decided she had enough and broke off the friendship.
* I've told them both that, even if they stopped being friends, I was going to stay friends with both of them. A, however, will not have any of it. Every time we talk, she has to tell me that B will end up stabbing me in the back and isn't my real friend (not to mention she hates all of our mutual friends). B, for the record, doesn't understand why I'm still friends with A, but is okay with it.
* This has made my friendships with both of them pretty crappy. I've stopped hanging out with B so much just to shut A up, even though B and I are really close. This isn't enough for A, she wants me to hate B as much as she does, and it's about to drive me nuts.
* They can't make up, because A still wants to be friends with B (god knows why if she hates her so much) -- either that or she wants B to admit she's ruined A's life (which isn't true, IMHO). B doesn't want to be friends, and she doesn't want to apologize for everything A's accusing her of (some of it's true, most of it isn't).
* A takes all of this out on me and doesn't seem to care how I feel about it. This really pisses me off, and I've told her and tried to explain myself a zillion times, but it never seems to work.
So, I'm at my wit's end, and I have no idea what to do about any of this anymore. Anyone got an idea?
omg i had the ame problem with my friends till finally i just had to pick a side. of course i try to work it out but they didnt want me to hang out with each other so maybe if you try to get them to hang out like invite both over to your house but dont tell them that the other person is coming that way you can get them both to sort out the problem together.
-Sam-
okay u see i have this friend. She's great and all but when its not just the two of us (like in a big group) she ditches me alot and tries to act all "cool". Becuz of this she is turning into a big flirt and somewhat of a slut. She's very rude to me and alot of her other friends and i REALLY want to tell her that becuz she needs to hear it, but i dont want to start a fight. HELP!!
~friend or enemy?
Try to talk to this "friend" about the way you think she is acting and see if you can try to see if there might be a family problem or a friend problem that may be causeing her to act the way she does if she does want to talk about it, it may be a serious problem that she doesnt want to discuse. if so you can tell your school counciler if it gets serious enough and mabe she can help her.
-sam-