Hey people!! my name is Clair or Clarice if you prefer to call me that!! I`m 13 years old && i live in SC. According to some people i give good advice so i thought i would use my fantabulous gift to help the world!! or at least a few people... hehe. well if you need help with ANYTHING don`t hesitate to ask or IM me on my screen name!! much lovin && good luck!!
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Ok well im a 13/f and my mom gets someone to babysit my brother whom is 8 just because im always out havin fun and doing stuff and i dont want to watch him. but anyways the point is lately his babysitter and me are like good friends. So well anyways she is 18 and I really i guess i could say i look up to her. I really do i love her like a sister and right now i know she is going thought a hard time and she started smoking and she said im gonna quit im just having a hard time well i dont think shes gonna quit because smoking is addicting and she might not be able to quit and im scared for her and myself because i look up to her so whats happens if i start to and i also dont think shes getting paid enought a week i added up all the time she worked this week and the money she got and dived it and she got like $2.78 an hour thats not fair she needs more money because she is gonna have to start paying for bills and stuff and shes not getting paid enought and now shes smoking and im lookin up to her and i just dont know what to do she is like a sister to me we are good friends and i really look up to her and i dont want her life to get screwed up plese help sorry this is so long
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the best thing would probably be to talk to her and tell her how you feel! if she sees how concerned you are about her she might be more motivated to stop... you can also set up a way to help her quit like if you see her smoking just say something to her about it. as for the pay... let your mom know that you did the math and you don`t think she`s getting enough money to stay on her feet and that you think it would be a good idea for her to get a raise...
best of luck!!
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Okay well my problem is really kinda hard ! Okay now ... we were the *POSSEY* for almost half of the year ! and Me and the rest of the possey were in a really big fight ! and I`ve tried apologizing to them and it just doesn`t work ! but it worked with two people but I`m not sure if it worked out between the 2 of us ... and i really want it to work out with the others and all become on big happy *POSSEY* again !
so Clair help me ! yeah this is who you think this is ! bye good luck on helping me again love yas bye ! (link)
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well for the first half of the year it was all really fun && everything but as the year went on we all kinda changed && shit happened... yeah we`re friends but i don`t think the *possey* will ever be the same again =\. it sux but i guess that`s just the way it has to be... =[. don`t worry... everything will work out && i know you have a lot of friends anyways so...
Good Luck!!
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Sorry its a little standard but i will try to make it quick, My mate likes a guy, who only likes her as a friend. She acted like she didnt mind but i think it hurt a bit. Anyway, today i found out he likes me, but i only like him as a friend, plus he is a year younger than me. so 3 questions, do i tell her? If so how do i tell her? and how do i let him down gently? (link)
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I`ve been in your friends position before so I think that you should let your friend know that he has feelings for you but that you don`t like him like that. She will understand. Just sit her down or tell her on the phone or however you feel comfortable and say "i think (whatever his name is) likes me as more than a friend... but i don`t like him like that and i`m going to let him know because i don`t want to get in the way of anything you two might have in the future and i know you have feelings for him." and then tell the guy that you don`t like him that way but your friend does (if she doesn`t mind you telling him that she likes him if he doesn`t already know). hopefully they`ll both understand!! and that way all of your feelings are in the open and everything else will just take care of itself!!
Good Luck!!
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