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I'm 16 and I've been told I give pretty good advice, a few friends told me to check out the site and see if I liked it so here I am. I'm not really one to ask for advice I normally keep things to myself, but for anyone who wants to ask any questions go for it.
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Age: 16
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so i have a problem. i can never hold a conversation with a guy wheni talk to them on aim. it seems like we run outta things ot talk aobut. we go throught he suaul whats up and everything and then we just kinda fade out.

how do i keep the conversations going.??
any adivce is appreciated! (link)
Act like your very interested....How was your day? What did you do? What are you up to tomorrow? If need be, be completely random, say something funny. Don't wait for them to start the conversation and don't let them end it either. Eventually you will start to talk more and become the kind of friends that can say pretty much anything to each other.

Hope this helps


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my friend sam, said she didnt like this one girl. and i mean i did, but like i guess she didnt think i did or something, because she was like ew no i hate her shes so weird. and i was like ok. but then i was reading what sam said to her on her myspace..

oh my god i got your message. and omg im sorry i cant hang out tongiht i could only hang out during the day cuase i have cheer tongiht and what about tomrorow we need to before i leaveeee. and OMG =( i just did something and oh my gosh call me noww!!talk to you later hun.

YESSSSSS. PLEASE. I NEED TO HANG OUT., Its Eight in the morning and my mom woke me up and im depressed. LITURALLY depressed. Ill explain why later. BUt yeah lets hang out today? call my cell. when you get this or wake up . Oh my god! =(

like.. wtf? theres a ton more like that too. she never leaves me comments like that? i dont think im jealous. im just confused.

whats up with her? (link)
Okay your friends two faced. She says one thing but doesnt mean it. I think you should tell the other girl what your so called "friend" is saying. She has a right to know if someones saying crap behind her back...especially someone she thinks is her friend. And you should confront your "friend" and ask her about it...see what her excuse is. I doubt it'll be any good but its always fun to see bad people sweat.


So i'm in 8th grade, and ive been friends with this girl since the beginning of 6th and when shes with people she knows i dont really talk to, she starts talking really bad crap about me and it always comes back to me! And she says im 'one of her best friends' but she never calls me for help on things, or tells me about her crushes, or anything. And shes liked my best guy friend for over 5 months and told all my other friends but me. And she LOVES stirring up drama at sleepovers or trips. And i honestly dont know what to do anymore! im sick of it! --plus i honestly dont recall doing anything for her to treat me this bad in the first place! what do i do? am i still friends with her or not???

help! =[ (link)
Okay...Drama=Bad. Its never fun to get mixed up in, someone always gets hurt. If she is talking behind your back you really just need to stop being friends with her. She obviously just likes to use people and abuse there trust. And it doesnt seem like she trusts you that much because she never tells you anything. You have 2 options.

1. Stop being friends with her.

2. Still be friends but act like she does. I dont mean talk behind her back...dont stoop to her level, I mean don't tell her anything about who you like or what problems your having...even if she seems interested, it could just be a way to get your secrets and then talk about you behind your back. Do not trust her with anything she doesnt seem like the type to just stop her evil ways or confess to doing these things.

I hope this helps good luck.




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