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i hardly ever get invited to any parties! im friends with the ppl that throw them, but they never invite me.. and when i do get invited i always end up playing 7 minutes in heaven or spin the bottle.. i just sit and watch but i always end up playing.. do you have any advice for me? i no its kinda confusing... thanks rachel
Heyy !* Well, I really didn't get enough information. But, do you enjoy going to these parties? Because it's sounds like when you do go you don't have any fun... but I may be wrong. And if your friends are excluding you, maybe you should find some new friends that treat you with respect. Hope I helped you :) !*
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okay rachel, i need some help! my friend farts SOOO mucharound me .... it really grosses me out! i tell her thats gross but she'll just laugh! sometimes she's even gross enough to fart on me! how do i get her to stop? w/o hurting her feelings? no joke .....i don't know how to tell her without hrting her feelings!
Next time she does, just be like "dude seriously you need to stop that it's really gross, I'm sorry if it hurts your feelings but it just grosses me out especially when you fart on me. Don't be mad at me I'm just trying to help."
lol... hope i helped :)
hey rachel!!!!....its ur otha 1/2!!
i miss u gurlie!!!!!....so we still havent done our little get together....wuts up with that??....AnYwAys.....i have something to say about the whole thing with ciara and michelle.... the way i see it you have done the right thing, you apologized over and over again and they didnt listen...who's problem is that?? and also michelle seriously needs to get a grip, get over it, and move on!!...and i dont kno wuts up with ciara....i have known her since pre school and in all that time i kno that she would never just drop a friend, especially one like you, and over something that has nothing to do with her. she told michelle that we were talkin about her on the bus....HELLO....so wus she!!!!....or did she forget that part. i mean there is really nothing left for u to do, u are there for them and they need to be there for u...remember, 1 person can be a friend but it takes 2 to have a friendship. and i hope u kno that u have one friend from st jude that is there for you forever and for always!!...i think we both kno that with wut our friendship has been through we can get through anything!!...i luv ya and im always here for you no matter what!!
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.......RaChEl d..........
THANK YOU RACH! I LOVE YAH SOOOOO MUCH! SERIOUSLY WE CAN MAKE IT THROUGH ANYTHING! AND I*M SO GLAD THAT WE'VE GOTTEN CLOSER! I LOVE YAH GIRLIE! x0x
my best friend doesnt like my boyfriend. shes only met him once so i dont know how she could say that. i told her she cant really say she doesnt like him if shes only met him once.. then she tells my parents she doesnt like him! she has no right to do that and i told her.. but shes a really good friend. do u have any advice?
you could always have them meet again and do something fun, she might change her mind about him. but you were right she has no right to tell your parents her opinion on the guy. but who knows maybe she sees a side of him that you don't. ~ hope i helped !! ~
The ignoring thing realy is the right thing to do and i have been doing it but now im even more upset because she acts like shes the only one whoese hurt here...that i so called stole her bf because im abig bitch and realy i havent im just a friend...i havent talked about her at all with anyone besides the fact that im upset about her being mad at me..and with you but does she have the right to go say shyt about me like this its realy awful too now all of her friends think im a huge biotch and i dont ant to be seen that way but im not about to go up to them and be like "ignore her because I know that shes still pressed over him and is taking it out on me" what th ehell am i supposed to do???
well... you can ignore it or you could apologize for going out with him. i mean if you look at the previous question thing then you'll see i just went through the same thing. and the choices i made were wrong i waited to long to apologize. so i would apologize to this girl and if she doesnt accept it than don't waste your time on her.
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Believe me I have tried, many times. But they say that they don't want to be friends with me because I "have been such a bad friend." The thing is I didn't do anything to anyone except for Michelle. And all I did was go out with the guy she liked. But see I didn't know that. So now I feel stupid for ever going out with the kid. I lost all of my friends.. and what does he do, dump me. So yea, no matter how much I try they don't want me back...........This no it should be like this...... Believe me I have tried, many times. But they say that they don't want to be friends with me because I "have been such a bad friend." The thing is I didn't do anything to anyone except for Michelle. And all I did was go out with the guy she liked and give her crap about him breaking up with his last girlfriend saying that michelle is a boyfriend stealer because I knew she liked him. And it realy doesnt make sense cus then he asked me out and then i acted like nothing happedn. So now I feel stupid for ever going out with the kid. I lost all of my friends.. and what does he do, dump me. So yea, no matter how much I try they don't want me back....look rach i'm sure everyone would take you back as a friend because you are a nice person they are just caught up with some things but if you are the first to admitt what i changed in this paragraph then ppl will not hate you im sure they want you back and i think you need them back too just be the first to show u care so all can be better
okay this is not exactly how everything went down. okay ill admitt i have left stuff out bc not everyone needs to know everything. i truly didn't know michelle liked him bc at pats party she was all over greg so i kinda figured she didnt like him anymore. and yes i know i was bad mouthing her about being all of johnny because i liked him lol. yes okay i was jealous. and then i was talking with maggie and she said that she didnt care about the whole michelle and johnny thing and by then johnny had told me he liked me, and since i liked him we went out. it doesnt even matter anymore it didnt last. i mean i have apologized. you can ask michelle and ciara, i apologized to ciara numorous times, but everytime i had told her she would critisize my friendship to her saying i did all this stuff. i know i may not have been the number one friend but i was there for her. and you said that i need them back, im not so sure of that, school hasnt even started yet, who knows i may be better off without them. and i have told ciara how much i care but i dont think that matters to her. i have emails from her and everything, i tried, and in doing so i caused myself alot of pain.**ps** last time i checked this was my advice column not some place to explain all of my problem and get advice from other people lol**
yah ur rite u shouldnt have kept trying... but it sux becasue you no what u were all friends and if you get mad at 1 and especially hurt 1 it makes the rest mad... im sure many ppl have been there before you no..?? i think maybe you should talk to the ppl like that were mad at you for no reason.. and mayb see if they will give you anotehr chance cause you no there is hope...just believe in yourself... ok??? give it a try what do u say?
I don't know if I want to put myself through that. I know it was wrong of me to give up, but what else am I supposed to do? They won't listen to me and they don't care about me.
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p.s. who is this !? write backk!
Hey!! Well 1st thing this girl and i have been really close and through some years we have grown apart and for the last 2 years she has been really mean to me..Is there any thing i can do to be friend again or if you cant be friends again if i can stop her from being mean to me???
2nd thing- I have never had a boyfriend or even been asked to dance @ a school dance @ all is there something wrong with me??
Heyy! okayy we will start with 1. Personally I would confront her, maybe you guys could work something out. But if she's not willing to work things out, than i would just give up. It's not like you would want to be friends with someone who treats you like crap.
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hey rachel!! 1st i wanna say don;t worry aout thiose girls being mean 2 u!!! n sencond i wanna say ok well there is this girl n we have been like best frineds till this summer n now she sed we r growing apart n i think itz jus cuz she didn;t have a lot of frneds at her skool n now she has friends n the summer what should i do?? still try 2 b her best frined or jus make new frineds at my new skool that btw she will b there
hey there! thanks! well i kinda just went through the same thing... and i mean i was on the other side and it just killed me when this girl didn't want to be my friend anymore... so even if you guys are struggling you should still try to atleast be friends and keep contact with eachother. Who knows you might regret not talking to her, i know i sure do.
my friend n my were smokeing some pcp (acid worse than weed) newayz i took a puff n said wtf this is gay n he was like give me my shit n i did cuz i firgued wat the hell well hes in the hosptial dying cuz of me 10% making it til monday alive if he dies i have to live wit it
on a side note my gf is going to a differnet school i dunno about this she juss not as fun to talk i think im only staying with her for making out n shit n it seems really shaloow but i might like her i cant tell but is hard to break up cuz she likes me alot i also mite like my ex again wat do i do - 2messups
1st... okayy i may not be experienced with this at all... but i mean its not your fault he does what he does.. i mean yea you could have prevented him from having it... but in other situations could you be able to stop him too? Try not to put so much pressure on yourself, and visit him as much as you can! Sorry if I wasn't much help!
2nd...i think if your having doubts than you should let her know... especially if you are only with her for those reasons... and if you do like your ex i would wait to see what happens between you and your current girlfriend... make sure you give it some time!
OKay thers this guy and in the begginingof the summer we started as friends but then i liked him and he liked me but had a girlfriend and broke up with her and she hated me but she never talked tohim anyway its been almost 2 months since he broke up with her but she still says shyt about me and hates meand ive never hated her i still dont i think shes cool and i like her but i think she should kinda stay out of my buisnessnow since herlittle thingis long since over....what should i do or say to her or how ami supposed to act
in my opinion...i think you should ignore it.. because if you said something to her i'm sure she would get even more mad... so for right now i'd just wait for her to get over him. there's nothing else you could really do... hope i helped :)
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