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Hey everyone! So I just made this thing if anyone wants to talk or ask for my advice or what not, I'm not Dr. Phill so don't expect some expert answer but I'll try my best and we'll see how it goes!

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My friend has this bad problem with flirting with people and not even realizing that she's flirting with them. For example, she told my boyfriend that she thought he was cute, started giggling, and blushed. My boyfriend was rather...irritated...by this, as he can not stand my friend. Whenever I confront her about it, she swears to God she hasn't flirted. How can I get her to see that she really has a problem with this? It just irritates me to see her flirting with my boyfriend. x_x Please help?

i have a friend just like that! and its sooo annoying, i know exactly how u feel! some girls need attention, for various reasons but you should just be like "i know you you honestly think youre not flirting with my bf but could you at least try to stay away from him (so then she doesn't have to TRY NOT TO flirt) cause then it'll prevent all problems between the 3 of us" ...or somethin glike that

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Well its my first year in college and I am like 500 miles from home and I only know 3 people up here at college. I have joined the softball team at my college and that has really been my only way off meeting people and all the girls on the team are really nice. My thing is, is that I would like to go and hang out with the girls on the team outside of practice and seeing them at school. But they seem to have their own little groups between them and me being a freshmen, I feel like they don't want me to hang out with them. They talk about going to parties and going out during practice but never tend to invite me, and I don't want to feel like a bug and invite myself or say anything about me coming along. But I am just getting sick of hanging out with the same 3 people everyday and night. I would like to have some other people to go and do things with instead of sitting in my room doing nothing. See my problem is, is that I am shy so I don't talk much while at practice or games so that might be why they don't invite me but thats just how I am for a while when meeting new people then after a while I open up. So what do you suggest that I do? Any advice would help. Thanks a bunch!

Sorry this is long

Well, if you don't talk much, they'll just think you dont want to talk to them or go out! Having confidence is the key to EVERYTHING. invite yourself in a nice way, or go with your 3 friends. it's always good to have back up cause then it's like ure in a crowd and its more of a confidence booster. but as long as you know how to have fun.. you'll definatly find a way into the group!

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