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ok... i'm a 16 yr old girl and i dunno exactly what to do any more. see i have only a few really good friends, and 2 of my closest are guys. and i've a girl friend who i tell EVERYTHING to, there's nothing that she doesn't know about me. and for a while i kinda kept the 2 seperate, like 2 differnt sources of friendship, advice, and support. but being that we're all now friends it feels like she's dominating over my friendship w/ the guys. what i mean is, i used to be really close to them but now it's kinda like she's moved into my place among them. the attention, conversation, etc i got from them now goes to her. and i feel replaced. i know she doesn't mean it and i'm prolly just over reacting but i'm not sure what to do about it. i'm unsure whether to say something, to ignore it or what to do. i don't wanna hurt her by saying something stupid or mean, but i kinda liked things the way they were. not to say i don't want her to be friends w/ the guys, just not to seperate me from them.... any suggestions as to what to do?? (link)
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Your friend probably doesn't mean it. She herself is probably trying to fit in with them. I've heard about this scenerio before and maybe your friend thought she had been left out before and didn't want it to happen again. I think you and your friend should talk about it. Go over everything thats happened and see where everyone lies within one another
~ Perfect Pixie
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