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Q: yeah, cooler older people...i've tried being confident...and i am...but i'm also realistically aware of my abilities...and these people are much closer to the definition of cool than me, wittier, smarter, wiser, up on trends i'm not up on, and have a hard time keeping up with ect...they are nice to me but...i'm pretty sure they're also a bit bored with me...how can i change this...without becoming mentally four years older...i wouldn't mind putting some effort into keeping up with their topics of intrest ect...but i just don't think i can get to where it has taken them four years to get to intellectually so quickly...how can i get these guys to like me...i'd love to be in their company. they are really interesting.
Dear Defying Age and Time,
Age, as you haven proven, isn't the main issue. Obviously they enjoy your company, but you wish to know how to 'fit in' and be more 'interesting' within the group? It's simple- just be yourslef- there is no point in researching all the intellegent things they talk about and make it sound like YOU know what you are talking about just to say In and Up in the crowd. Just talk about what you know. If you want to change your knowledge, that is completely fine- Buy a new outfit, try something new, or maybe just brush up on some world news- whatever- just dont mae yourself to be so much older- be happy with your age!
Hope I've Helped!
Good Luck
-Miss Mabry

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MissMabry
Hey there! My name is MissMabry and i actually have a great amount of experience in giving advice to people: I was the head of the Relationship Advice Column in Vista News, a peer cousler the first two years of my highschool experience and now am training in Psychology to help those who need advice! So if you would like to post a question, feel free to ask me anything you would like!
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Miss Mabry

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