I met someone on the internet n i wanna see them but i don think they wanna see me. Do i keep at it and try to get them to meet or do i leave it alone n drop the subject? I hope u can solve my problem.
Well you have to ask this person if they want to see or not. If the person does, you can maybe meet the person, and if the person doesn't you could drop it if you want to, or you can just remain online friends. But i dont want to seem like a parent, but meeting someone offline can be dangerous. So whatever you do go with a friend. Hope this helps.
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My friend asks me for advice a lot and always comes to me for help. I appreciate it, but I'm not to good at being comforting. I end up trying to make the situation look funny, like it's no big deal, or I change the subject. And sometimes she'll ask me about guys and issues with drugs and stuff but I'd know nothing about these things. How can I be more supportive?
And I'm fourteen and a girl since this is a relationship related question. Though I'm not sure you need to know that...
You can be more supporting by not making a joke out of it. She might think your immature. So try your best to keep a serious face on and offer her support by making her feel better. You also can give her your opinion on what you would do or how you feel. I hope this helps. Miss Advice x
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my best friend can get annoying but i know she doesnt mean to but its just so annoying like if shes the one being mean she'll b like why r u being so mean to me and little things like that. but one day she really hurt me when she said something but i can't remember wat she said.
and i dont want to hurt her
what should i do?
I have had friends like this. Sometimes i hurt their feelings and told them to leave me alone, or you talk too much. That was a mistake and i shouldnt have done that. But the best thing you should do is try to talk to your friend and tell her sometimes she can be annoying and tell her the way you feel. I know it will be kind of hard but its better for her to know than for her to keep doing it. Dont be mean in a way you think you'll hurt her. Tell her in a way she will understand but not get her feelings hurt. Hope this helps. Miss Advice x.
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My friend lies to me a lot about the littlest things. I didn't really pay attension to them at first but then they got bigger. What should I do?
You should confront her and tell her you dont like her lies. You should tell her you really want to remain friends with her and what lying has done to your friendship. It may take a while for her to stop lying but what matters is shes trying to improve herself and your friendship with her. If you confront her and she doesnt care or ignores you, its time you find a new friend that will appreciate your requests and needs. Miss Advice x.
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okay, my problem, is that i need more friends...like, i just feel that i am not important to anybody, i am scared to go to high school that i will be new at..i really dont know how to make friends, i am extremly shy..i just dont know what to do, all i want is just to be liked by people..:( what do i do? please help me!
Well you cant be liked by everyone thats a fact, because you wont like everyone you see walking down the street. You should try making small conversations with people that you'll think that are people you will get along with. Once again i mentioned this already. Dont talk too much, most people dont like that trust me and i dont either. I hope this helps.
Miss Advice x
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hi im kellyim a girl and im 13yrs old....im going 2 a new jr.high.. ever since i was little i had no friends i always sat by myself at lunch no body would talk to me or invite me anywhere.. i would try to be nice and talk to then but they just ignore me...they always make fun of me and every day i would come home from skool and cry.. i feel so alone and unloves..i kno every 1 tells me that im gonna make friends in my new skool but i just kno i wont please help me
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Its sometimes hard for people to make friends at a new school. Maybe you should play a sport at your school that your good at. If they have a team for the sport its a great idea to join it. But if you don't like sports you should try doing things that will help get you noticed like doing favors for people. Just random acts of kindness like picking up someones pen if they drop it. But if you think thats cheesy you should try starting small coversations with people without talking too much. It was a little hard answering this question because i have never been in this situation. But i hope this advice helps.
Miss Advice x
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