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Okay... I'm 16 and theres this guy ive liked since the 8th grade, in 7th grade we were sort of close. Im now in the the 10th grade and Earilier this year i sort of got mad but not @ him i just sort of blamed it on him. This was september and he hasnt talked to me since except once and thats only cause i was dating one of his friends. Hes like one of my best friends and i hate the fact that hes not talking to me how would you get him to talk? I appligied tons of times and he wont except it. What should i do?

aww, i'm sorry, i know you said you already apologized a million times, but keep doing it. and try to get him to hang out again, just the two of you, and really sit down and talk about it with him. i hope that helps! good luck!

♥ Lins

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I have this "friend" if that's what u wanna call him.. and his girlfriend and me and my friend have NEVER EVER got along since this shit happened with this guy and she threatened to kill herself and hated us and we thought she was psycho and ya know, the shit goes on. Anyways, he claims that we never shut up about this grudge that we've had w/ hid g/f when really he brings it up more than we do and obviously since girls are so caddy and shit, when they're put together and dont like each other, there gonna fight. ANd the only reason that we apologize to him is because we know he gets pissed when we do it and we mean nothing against him, just his girlfriend. So, i wanna know why people can't just stop talking shit about everyone and gossiping like we're in the damn 2nd grade!

well this "friend" doesn't seem to understand that you and this girl are trying to just forget about it. i don't know why he'd keep bringing it up if it has to do with his g/f, he'd be most likely keep the situation on the DL, instead of keep bringing it up. but anyways you're never gonna stop people from gossiping, it's just how people are, it's basically how everyone is. so thats sumthing ur just gonna have to try and get over yourself, and just ignore the other person. hope i helped, and good luck!

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Okay, so I know this guy who is dating this girl that me and my other friend HATE! I mean, this girl that he is dating like totally screwed with everything that me and this guy that I've been in total love with for a couple months up. But me and that guy are totally over and it turns out he was a jerk. But anyways, this girl that my friend and I hate is going to this birthday party of our other friend too. So, we're all gonna see each other and everything and I dunno what to do if something goes down and a bitch fight breaks out or something. So, give me some advice!

well, at the party, just you and your friend try to stay as far away from this girl as you can, just don't even talk to her. and if u do HAVE to talk to her just try to keep your cool when you're around her. most likely if u 2 stay cool, then this other girl will too, i hope everything works out! good luck!

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My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and that's why he keeps dumping me. She's in Special Education. She's not really a friend but I associate her because she's in my group of friends.

If he keeps dumping you for another girl, it seems like he doesn't really care for you. and if u keep taking him back, it's not gonna make him stop, you should talk to him, AND her about it, maybe she doesn't relize that she's doing it.
hope i helped *Lins

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