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Hey>< im 13 i play volleyball on my team at school im an 8th grader and i love swimming and i love the outdoors! If anyone just wants to plain out have a convo wiht me ro talk im glad to help becuz ive been threw alot of situations like alot of people have and i can relate so ill be anyones crying shoulder if u need me!

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my friend always steals my friends. like just recently i started talking to this girl anna* and she goes and starts talking to her and they are good friends..well sorta and it pisses me off! and last year i met this guy jack* and we became BEST friends (still are) and whoa hey, shes friends with him all of a sudden! wow! what a surprise..not! ugh i know i sound selfish but it annoys me..like she has to have everythign i have and its starting to get to me! plz help

I know how you feel like shes better then you and everyone likes ehr better then you even though they kenw you longer its happened to me plenty of times . T alk to ehr and tell her how you fell she sould understand and i know you fell like ur being shelfish but if you talk to ehr and she reacts meanly shes the one being slefish not you! Hope i helped byeZ!

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okay my best friend is such a copy cat! and somtimes i cant take it anymore and get mad if she acts like me or anything like that because every time i tell her the guy i like she then says o yeah i like him too and then she wants to have the same things i have i mean she painted her room the same color as mine and got the same comforter as mine too!! and she totally acts like me and talks like me and trys to dress like me! what should i tell her ? cuz i love her like shes my sister and dont wanna make her hurt i just want her to stop being me plz help me! thanks!

Maybe she's justlike that because she knows you and how you are and she wants to be like that independant and brave and courageous its normal for someone to realize there si someone bigger andbbetter then them so they want to try to be like them. Talk to her and tell her how you feel about her copying you.Hope i helped IM me if ya wanna !

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Well hey ima 16*f..Well okay the other day i told my friend Steph something i though she could keep between me and her..cause she always keeps stuff between us and were like fam..well i guess its a big deal and everything cause i got hit by my ex boyfriend..well my mom knew bout it so i aint think she'd tell other people..well she told other people my business i guess..but she twisted my story completly around and said that the guy i go wit now is beating me and raping me i never said anything about getting raped..and it all got back to my mom and she belived it at first but my mom listens to me before one my friends so i told it wasnt tru..well the guy that really did hit me is my friend Steph friend..and the guy i go wit now she dont like and i think its cause he is black,, like she always has her little comments bout the mixed racial couple thing..which i dont care that she does..but i really miss her i havent talk to her in a couple days..and i dont wanna lose her but i dont want some lies gettin put out then me lose my baby..i rate high please help...

Maybe your friend is jealous of you having your relationships. Obviously she is not really our friend but im glad you definitley told someone.tALK TO EHR ABOUT IT AND MAKE SURE SHE DID ALL F THIS AND STARTED IT . I thikn shes jealous of you having a b/f and her liking one of them she isnt really a good friend to go and od that so do sumthing about it.

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Right now in my life, I cant trust anyone and it feels as if there are so many conspiracies going on behind my back. Like everyone in the world is against me and its just sooo frustrating. I just dont know what to do. Can anyone help?

You need to talk to those people you think are against you why and how have you been getting this feeling start by doing nit one person at a time thats what I do when alot of people are mad or against me try it and get back to me on it !!

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