Hey!!
I'm Lollipop. I'm 15, but I know more than you would think. I've had my share of crap, and now I'm here to answer questions. I orginally joined this site to GET advice, but I've found that I answer more questions than I ask. I have also found that I relate to almost every love life question. Let's just say I had a tough year... So, that's my area of expertise. The one thing that bugs me the most on this site are when people say you're too young to feel what you feel. Screw that. I don't think it matters if you're 15 or 51, you know what you feel. I don't know much about sex because I believe in waiting until marriage, but I know what it's like to be pressured. Ask me something, and I will give you an answer.
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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I have a childhood friend of 17 years that dated this girl for 2 years. She became close to his family and friends. After they broke up, she was heartbroken and started clinging to me. One day talking, she began to cry and told me thank you. The thank you was for still staying friends with her despite the break up with my friend. She then said that everyone stopped talking to her and I was the only that stuck with her. The thing is I didn't stick with her, she just clinged to me and I didn't want to be rude. She has now become annoying. She didn't hear from me for a week and she began to panic, thinking I was mad at her and I didn't want to be friends with her. I was just busy. She gets mad if I don't invite her to hang out with me. She gets an attitude if I can't make it to hang out with her. She has become rude and unbearable. I'm starting to think she is not over my friend and is clinging to me because of that. I don't know how to tell her, she's driving me crazy and I don't want to be friends with her. (link)
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Hello!
Oh gosh this brings me back... Okay I dated this guy for a year. His sister became my bestfriend, his mother was more of a mother to me than my own and his bestfriend and I became good friends too. She is obviously heartbroken. And hurting. I've been there. When that much of your life is invested and intertwined into someone else's and suddenly all of it is taken away...? It sucks. You can't even imagine. She is clinging. She is clinging to the only thing thats still what she knows her life to be. Maybe she's even trying to stay connected with her ex. No matter what, trust me, she's going through a really rough time. And she might really need you. So I suggest you talk to her but please, I know what she's feeling even if you don't, she needs you. Maybe tell her you still want to be friends but you don't think making you her life is a health way to cope with her break up. Make sure you tell her you'll still be there for her and youre not abandoning her but that you need just a little space. Please be as gentle as possible!
Goodluck!
Xoxo
LoLL-i-PoP
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ok so me and a guy friend have an interesting relationship we are totally comfortable with eachother. we sometimes play truth or dare, but without rules... no matter what it is we have to do it. and him being a guy always ends up getting me good by of course suggesting sexual dares such as stripping, etc you know. i dont mind, however, i want to get him good too. so does anyone have any suggestions of dares i can make him do that will get him really good. doesnt matter how crazy they are... ive done stuff such as dressing him up in my clothes, making him sing mushy love songs...but i want stuff thats even better! any suggestons??? (link)
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Dear 'truth or dare gone wild'
Oooh sounds like fun! Well there are a few things I would try. One I had to do a few years back was lick chocolate syrup off of someone's finger. But there are other funny ones like cracking in egg in his underwear and giving him a wedgie. Or dare him to be your personal slave for a day. But if you are going in the truth direction I would suggest asking him embarassing stuff like "his secret pleasure movie". Ha, well, have fun babe. ;].
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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How do you tell a friend she is involved in an emotional affair? She is involved emotionally with the husband of my good friend and used to be her good friend. She's confused as to why the wife has put so much distance between her. She doesn't get it. There's so much denial as to the depth of her involvement with the husband. Everytime I go there with her, she gets angry at me and I don't know if a friendship can be salvaged between her and I. Help!! any advice is appreciated (link)
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Dear 'Emotional Affair'
I agree with the other poster. You can't do anything else. You have chosen to tell her and she has chosen not to listen to you. You can't force her out of denial. All you can do is wait until she comes to terms and be there for her to support her and not say "I told you so". Past that, you really just have to drop it babe. It is apparently hurting your relationship and it is really isn't any of your business, it's between your friend and the wife and husband. So really hun, you just got to stay out of it.
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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