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Q: I raped someone I want to turn myself in immediately. Tell me what I need to do. I need to be punished. I will not say how it happen and why. I can't make up any excuses. I was drunk but it doesn't change anything. The person who was hurt doesn't want to do anything and prefers to just forget and move on, but I can't . I need to be punished and I want to turn myself in. The person wouldn't have to worry about trial or publicity. I just need to know what I have to prepare for.
We all make mistakes but unfortunately mistakes usually have consequences and I'm very proud of you for preparing to suffer the consequence for this incident. The best way to deal with your situation would be to go to your local police department and tell them what you did and if possible write the person you raped a sorry letter. As for what will happen to you if you turn yourself in I'm not sure of. Different states have different laws and different ways of dealing with things. Research it online but it'd be best to turn yourself in. This will help you get over what you did and will teach you not to do it again. Life is all about learning and you'll never truly learn if you don't do what you need to do. Hope this helps you find your way

Q: So basically I'm a girl who has a crush on her female friend. My friend has another best friend who she prefers more than me- but whether it's a crush or love, I defiantly like her more than a friend. But I've never been attracted to someone of the same gender before... I'm totally okay with being gay, but I'm just not sure if I am- and I'm not bi because (as I've said) this is the first time, and I know that she's not gay but is supporting of gay people, so do I tell her how I feel? Or continue to be the third wheel as I feel really sad, I don't know... Please no hate, I'm very young (13) and please serious answers... Thanks, Lea Wills xxx
It's better to get it off your chest and tell her how you feel. You'd definitely want to know if she did or not and only time will tell if you're gay or not.

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