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both of my best friends feel as though they've been replaced with my new boyfriend. it sucks so much... especially because one of them is being a total hypocrite about it. she also had a new boyfriend before i did and she's head over heels for him. they spend all their time together. everything sucks and the only thing i can do is cut. i wish it wasn't like this. please help.

if they feel that way then put down your razor and talk things over with them.

what exactly is cutting going to solve?
I can tell you what it WONT solve:
1. Reparing friendships
2. Helping you.
3. Helping your problem.

Obviously one of two things are happening:
1. Your friends are jealous.
2. Your friends REALLY dont feel like youre spending time with them.

Friends ALWAYS come first so if they really dont feel like your giving them enough attention then hang out with them a little more than your boyfriend for now.

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