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Last school year, my friend Shawn and I messed around like two times. Well since we were such good friends, we both decided that we didn't want all of our other friends to know about it. But, I had to talk about it to someone so I told my closest girl friend, Melissa because we tell each other EVERYTHING (well we used to anyway now I tend to keep most things like this to myself and not tell her).


So I was talking to another friend, Mark and asking him about his new girlfriend (this was about a month after I told Melissa about Shawn). He wouldn't tell me what I wanted to know and said that the only person that did know was him, his girlfriend, and Melissa.


That really pissed me off because, well, wouldn't it piss you off? So I asked him why he told Melissa and wouldn't tell me. At this point, I didn't care about him and his girlfriend any more; I wanted to know why he thought he could trust Melissa over me.


He told me that he doesn't trust her over me and that the only reason he told her was because she traded other information. He told me not to make a big deal out of it but she told him about Shawn and me to get the information about him and his girlfriend.


I was furious when he told me this and the only thing keeping me from fucking exploding in her back stabbing, untrusting, face was that she was having some serious family issues.


Now, every time she tells me about the guys in her life I remember how she "traded information" about me and it drives me insane!! I wasnt to say something SO bad but since it happened last year I don't know how it'd turn out. What do I do here? I seriously can't take it anymore.
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Hey, I say confront her!!! It's not right that she told your secret without your consent. Just sit her down at tell her how this made you feel. If she's a good friend, she'll apologize for what she did. Hopefully you can work things out with your friend!!! :D




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