My name is Justine. I'm 17yrs old, and I live in New York. I'm a pretty laid back, non-drama queen type of girl. I get along with pretty much anyone. Some people, mainly girls, don't give me the time of day though. I am a Christian, and a non-judgemental person.
I live life to the fullest, cliche I know, but it's true. Although some days, I like to just lay around and do nothing except eat and watch TV. My friends are my everything. Without them, I'd be no where. I am a complete daddy's girl.
People would describe me as funny, vibrant, dorky, shocking, idiot, dork, fag, and the list goes on. I am always the one that my friends come to for advice, and I someday want to be a psychologist. This is a good way for me to test my skills.
I have gone through a real hard time in my life, as I'm sure a lot of other people have too. I don't really feel like explaining my sad story, I don't want to be depressing. I was to the point of thinking why bother living anymore. I turned to prayer, and it changed my life.
You live you learn. I have learned.
I think a lot, and I write in a journal everynight. About my day, or random thoughts. I spend way to much time in my own head. It's a good and bad thing.
I am here for anyone who wants my help, advice, or just to talk.
-Justine
Website: Justine
E-mail: KissTheRain0024@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Age: 17
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ok well, my friend, i really like him alot, but were like best friends, so i dont wanna mess that up. but anyway, last night i came home, and i wasnt at school yesterday. So i was online and he came on and usually i IM him first, and i was typing to him, but he IMed me first, and he was like... I MISSED YOU SO MUCH TODAY! and i was really surprised because i didnt think he would say that because i thought he was mad at me and i'd been thinking about it all day while i was away, and no matter what me and my friend were talking about his name always came out of my mouth. So anyway then we were talking and he was like, listen to this song i found today, and he made me listen to let me hold you by omarion and bowwow, and he was like, when i heard it i had to have you listen to it. And then i had to go and i was like, im gonna go, im dead tired. and he was like, go to bed, and that kinda surprised me because usually he's just like w/e bye. i know this sounds kinda gay, but does this mean anything? (link)
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All good relationships start out as friendships. He probably secretly likes you, and doesn't want to say anything for the same reason you do, because you don't want to ruin a friendship. It's a tough choice, because there is the risk of breaking up, and things being acward. But if you don't pursue anything, you could be left with the question, "What if?".
My advice would be to flirt more, and see where it goes. He probably does like you, and is just afraid to let it out. Hang out one and one, maybe watch a 'love story' movie. Or, a scarey one, so you can be scared and hang on to him. haha.
Hope I helped somewhat.
-Justine
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Today this girl that I really don't like, but hang out with anyways, asked to see a note that my best friend had wrote me, that said stuff about her in it. ALOT of stuff. I said no because it was mine and she had no right seeing it, she took my purse dumped it out on the floor but I hid it in my desk, and then she randomly got into my desk and found it, I didn't want her to see it, and now I'm afraid my best friend's going to be mad at me, but I'm not sure because I really didn't do anything wrong, right? (link)
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You did nothing wrong.
Number 1: The girl had no right to ask to see the note. It's none of her business.
Number 2: You tried to save her from reading the note in the frist place, knowing that there was something written about her in it.
Number 3: She had no right of going through your purse and desk to get the note.
Tell your best friend what happened. How she went through your purse and desk. She's your best friend, she'll understand what happened and she shouldn't be mad at you. If anyone to be mad at its the girl who went through your personal things.
All in all, you did nothing wrong. You tried to stop the girl, serves her right for reading what she read. Your best friend will understand. =)
-Justine
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