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One of my friends likes this guys and wants to date him, so we have all been trying to get them together. the thing is whenever we all go to the movies or whatever her best friend is always all over him. her best friend just got out of a relationship and is taking it pretty hard. lately she has been hanging out with my friend's crush (just her and him)
I was wondering whether anyone thinks that she would go for the guy. I mean normally i dont think she would, but she isnt in the best mental state. what do i do?
ps: the guy likes them both
Thanks!
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well it sounds as if she must have some interest in him. she most likely wouldnt hang out with him, just the two of them if she didnt. Maybe she is just looking for confidence you get when someone likes you, the confidence you lose when you end a relationship. There really isnt anything you can do about it she'll come out of it on her own and maybe lose all interest in the guy, or maybe not. basically if i were you i would just talk to her about everything going on and see what she says..
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All of my friends and family tell me that I am beautiful, and so pretty. But when I look in the mirror, I am like.."eww." I can't take it anymore, I feel disgusted at myself. When I first meet people, they go, "wow you are beautiful!" I don't know if they are telling the truth or not. I have had people come up to me and ask if I model. But when I look in the mirror, I just don't see it. I have a boyfriend, he is wonderful, but he never tells me that I am beautiful. I went to a dance with him and he calls me up after and says, "hey, sorry I forgot to say you looked really nice tonight." and well he never said I look pretty or anything. I just don't know what to do. Is there any way to gain confidence on your looks? I am very outgoing..but sometimes I get so self conscious that I feel like I just want to go home and stay in the house. I am pretty popular at my school so I know it isn't a social disorder thing, because I have no problem with making friends. I just am so self conscious. Does anybody know of a way to stop being this way?
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no unfortunatly i wish i knew how to make it go away. i am soo self conscious too. whenever i get complaments im always like oh no im not im ugly or im fat. people get annoyed with that. just try not to think about i guess that is all that you really can do. whenever someone gives you a complament just beleve that it is true dont go analzying yourself. just have fun and eventualy you will be happy with yourself
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