Hi, I'm Karlie, and I love to give advice. I currently work for lots of other advice sites, and I'm having a great time doing so. I've been through alot in life, (and, no, im not lying about this) more than normal teenagers have. PLEASE feel free to ask me a question to my inbox. When I see a question in there, I get excited that someone wants my help. I'll never reject any at all. And also, when I leave advice I'd appreaciate feedback more than a "thanks". cause I'd like to know if I helped you or not.
thankyou =]
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Well, for the past 3 years I've pretty much have been drifting in this town,and freshman year,I'm realizing, it has nothing to offer to me. I live with my mom, but my dad lives in another state. I'm thinking of moving in with him, just to get away from it all. Theres pro's and con's, such as i wont be seeing my best friend, but i will be able to start over. has anyone experienced this or been through this before? Should i really give everything up? I need some,i don't know, insight? I know you can't make the decision for me, but I'm just looking for one last piece of advice, you know? 14/f (link)
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yes. something really similar like that happened to me. Last year i was in 8th grade, and i had been going to that school since preschool. I had my bestfriends in the whole world who went there, and then, me and my family moved to a new town, and i had to start highschool this year knowing absoloutley no one! I was so scared I cried b4 the 1st day of school, but now, im actually finding that the move was one of the best things that happenened to me. I fit right in at the highschool and I have made SOOO many friends. It was REALLY REALLY nice to start all over with no reputation or anything and make a name for myself that I could be proud of with no strings attached becuase no one new anything about me. 3 guys have asked me to homecoming and more offers are coming, and thats a plus on being the new girl. guys are interested.
So, if you want my advice, just listen to your heart, becuase leaving behind my bestfriends was REALLY hard, but i have made new ones and barely miss them now.
so, i really hope i helped =[. feel free to ask me naything else.
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I have a very strange question to ask..but please bear with me.
Let's say a guy has a girlfriend that's really ugly. And I know I'm prettier than her. When he shares her pictures and puts her pictures up and is so proud of them...does he realize that she's ugly? or is he so glad that he has a girlfriend that he doesn't care WHAT she looks like, as long as she "belongs" to him. And in this case, he thinks she's the most beautiful girl in the world?
Because it's getting annoying. This guy makes fun of my pictures, when I know I'm SO much prettier. But when he puts up her ugly pictures, he praises them. What am I supposed to say? It annoys me that he makes fun of me, when his girlfriend is disgustingly ugly.
I know it's shallow. =/ (link)
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dont feel bad or put down by this guy. When a guy likes a girl, he LOVES everything about her. And to him, her appearance is perfect in his eyes becuase he cares about her so much. He obviousy doesent like you as a girlfriend, so he isnt going to praise your pictures and call you pretty, even if you are prettier than his girlfriend. When he makes fun of you, just ignore it becuase he probly doesent mean it. Guys are guys, and the feel like making fun of other people is like "manly" well some of them do anyway,
hope i helped =]
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I'm a thirteen year old female.
Well I have a very bad problem with a friend. She thinks I am a backstabber because she thought I got mad at her for taking her old boyfriend, but I said I didn't. And she thinks im an annoying person because she said "Your like a mosquito that won't go away." I've tried talking to her, but nothing helped me. I tried telling her I won't be annoying anymore, but she didn't believe me. We have been friends since Kindergarten and then this happened....HELLLLP..please!!
-Depressed Anonymous- (link)
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I used to have the same problems. And actually, ask yourself, is it really you who has the problem? No, it's your friend. Most likely, if she keeps being mean and won't listen to you, it's her fault. But the best thing to do first is talk with your friend, face to face. Ask her if theres anithing you could change in your friendship to make things stronger and better again. If she still doesen't listen, shes probably not a very good friend and listner. Hope I helped! -Karlie
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