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I desided to make an advice column and its workin out pretty good! dont be afraid to ask me anything ill write back as soon as i can(which is soon lol) iv been thu a lot and if heard everything so im almost certan i can help you well ask away!

I love you all
Nicole

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I have this bestfriend who has been there for me most of the time and i try and do the same. but it seems like when people talk about me she doesnt really defind me, im not ask for her to take sides but she is my bestfriend and she should defind me. ive tried talking to her about it but when i do the subject gets changed or its still a problem as you can tell. ive also tried talking to those who dont like me and they dont really care they just hate me because im different. and also i tend to get upset when she hangs out with them because i dont know weather im being talked about its not that i care if they talk crap but its her i dont know about i mean i do trust her in most matters but since she doesnt really defind i wouldnt know what to think..i dont count on looking for another bestfriend because there really isnt anything a problem with besides this and i dont really have anyone that i can really depend on other than her and my brother so i think that ive tried.
I know its alot but what should i do.
-confused

you just gotta tell her to her face how you feel dont let her change the subject. if she doesnt stick up for you maybe shes trying to fit in because thats what it sounds like. Bestfriends are much more important then popularity and hopfully she will relize that.You would stick up for her so she should do the same for you just talk to her about it and she will prolly do something to make things better and if not then..shes not a very good friend.

Hope i helped

Love,
nicole

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Nicole.
Nothing as of now has seem to be good enough. i sware i dont mean that in a negitive way i mean it as everything use to be ok nothing real bad happend to me and nothing really good happend to me and i kinda liked it that way but now i feel like everything happening to me just seems wrong and it makes me like i dont have a point of being around these people

Everyone has a part of there life when its like that and even if its been that way for a long while i promise its not going to stay the same lol. life never stays the same and when u least expect it things are gonna change its just something you gotta wait on ya know. if you really want a change then do something about it becuz u can make things happen.

Hope i helped
Love
Nicole

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Hey Nicole, I dont really have a problem at all. I love you to death though and I just wanted to let you know this Advice thingy is great because I sat here and read all of them and you did a greta job answering everyones problems! Your an awesome bestfriend and I miss you like crazy! I cant wait til You vist me or I vist you again! I have so much freaking fun sorta like i lived there again! I love you Nicole!

-Chelsea Leigh bff

Thanx baby girl! i love you so much your my best friend and i miss you like crazy! I really wish you still lived here but it doesnt make a difference between us we will always be bestest friends hehe.YOu know i love you and im ALWAYS here for you

I LOVE U!
Nicole

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hey my best friend has a boy friend and theres a secret between us that we cant tell her and she thinks theres something going on between us but there really isnt i try to tell her that but she just doestn listen what do i do?

if you tell her its a secret she will eather not believe you or be mad that he went to you instead of her maybe you should leave it up to him to deal with it ? if its a secret like what hes getting her for her birthday then just give her little hints like its ok dont wory and wink so she knows its nothing bad.

hope i helped
Love
Nicole

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Hey Nicole, Alright I like this guy and I like him alot or whatever but one of my bestfriends dosnt really like the fact that i like him... and he is alittle older then me...but i have liked him for awhile and it felt werid going out with him the first time because we were close friends...but I always give second chances and i think he desveres another chance because he has always been there for me and everything..but my friends-guy wise- think that going out with somone 2 years older then you is wrong... and I dont want to be known as a slut or somthing going into the highschool....

-I love you Nicole

Why do you care what your friends think if they are good friends they should know you better then to think you are a slut to go out with someone older then you. N trust me once you guys go to highskool you wont be the only one dating older guys if you really like him then go for it do what makes you happy you cant please everyone but its more important that you please yourself.If he treats you like a princess then theres nothing wrong

hope i helped

Love you

nicole

ILYG!

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theres a girl i kinda like her but she two grades behind me and a year younger, i like her more than and friend but not like a gf so i dunno wat to do

You kinda like her but not as a girlfriend? whats the proublem then? If you dont really like her that much yet just let it take its course u may end up liking her more or you may not as for the grade thing who cares

Hope i hlepd

Nicole

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Hey Nicole, I have a problem with my friend she got a snake and I dont really like snakes... lol JK jk I just thought I would write somthing.

-I love you

Chels

lol Loser! you will love my snake i promise she is beautiful and graceful!YOu are just jelious chelsea becuz you wish you were green like her!

hehe
Nicole
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