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Q: my friend has a horrible boyfriend. he always acts like he's in love with other girls when hes not around her. and when he is around her they are all over eachother. and knowing my friend, its kind of gross. and he's so rude to me and all my other friends. my friend just doesnt see this. i know he will break her heart sooner or later. because she knows that he isnt totally in on the relationship, but she likes him too much to notice that. i'm afraid for my friend. he will really hurt her heart. [trust me i'm not jelous, i would never like this guy]. what should i do? i rate 5's
As painful as it is, you're going to have to tell your friend how you feel. MAKE SURE you tell her you care for her and you are doing this just to protect her and to make sure she doesn't get hurt.

Most likely she will get angry or upset at you and accuse you of being jelous. Just don't let her push you too far away ( and don't be offended) If you can somehow prove to her that he hits on other girls, maybe she won't get mad.

Make sure you don't say " I told you so " or anything like that if she does get mad at you, then he breaks up with you.

It's the best thing you can do. Just be sure to tell her you think he's going to break her heart, she will love you for this. I promise. :]

Q: ok so we are doing this secret santa thing in my class. yeah its kinda early. but any ways. so i have this guy whos like 16 and i have no idea what to get him. He's a pretty god freind of mine. i just have no idea. I dont normally buy presents for that many guys. so im kind of drawing a blank.

got any ideas?

mmm.
Cologne would be good.
Maybe a $5 or $10 giftcard to starbucks or a local resturaunt he likes.
A big bag of his favorite candy.
A small amount of money on a gift card to say blockbuster.
If you two have an inside joke maybe something that represents that inside joke.
Maybe a little stuffed santa or a small stuffed toy that represents the holiday season.

Theres lots of things,
I hope I helped =) =)

Q: I'm in this advanced choir. There's this new girl who just joined. She's 13, like me, only she's a grade ahead of me (I'm a 7th grader). I have to admit, she's pretty good. Everyone knows that she's got this beautiful high voice, a little like Sarah Brightman's. She's a bitch! She's always flaunting her voice. During camp, we all had to watch this documentary on opera, and she goes "I bet I could sing opera..." Jesus! She's only 13, right?!!!! She had to share a bunk with me. She's was a disgusting bunk mate. She was always spilling her milk all over my papers, bringing food into the dorm, not eating it, and soon there would be moldy peaches everywhere. She can NEVER stop talking about herself. It's always me, me, me, me, me, my voice, my hair, and my boyfriend. Once she was talking about herself and says "my friend and I were watching the Phantom of the Opera and I could sing that really high note at the end of the song 'The Phantom of the Opera.' " She sings the note and asks "Can you sing it?" So I tried, and of course I couldn't, because I'm not even a soprano, and she goes "ha-ha! i can sing the high E and you're all strained up. That's hilarious..." and goes off into another monologue about herself. Now I have to sit on the risers right next to her, and she's getting worse. She's also a brownnoser. She's always sucking up to our choir teacher, and so on...what can I do to put up with her? I don't want anyone to say "talk to her about it." It's not like she's my friend or anything.
She's what we call " Desperate for Attention" She wants everyone to recognize her strengths instead of her weaknessess. So she only shows her strengths. People like her are everywhere, try talking to her. Be like, "Look, I know your new, and your life may be fascinating .. but personally don't care" Or if you more of a nicer person try " I really like your voice, and you are talented, but I don't need to be reminded every second"

Your best bet: Ignore Her. If you don't give her the attention she's striving for, maybe she'll go off and try to get it from someone else. I Hope it all works :)

Q: ok so my friend Brendan has been ignoring me lately. We don't see much..and we were really good friends, but all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me. We only talk over the internet and phone.so I don't know what's happening and I don't know what to do.
Maybe he just realized he likes you as more then a friend ? Your best bet would be to just talk to him. Find him at school, pull him aside, and just ask him whats up. If he won't talk ; Ask some of his other friends if he's mentioned anything about you lately. Hope It works out :)

Q: My friend is jealous that this year I made a new friend and now she is spreading mean rumors about me cuz shes jealous what do I do?? Much Luv

~~Mackie~~
I wouldn't call this girl your friend if she's spreading rumors about you. Since she's so jelous ; try including her in your and your new friend's plans. Other then that, your just going to have to move on. Those types of girls are everywhere; don't let her ruin your good time. :)

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