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my friend kasey whitmer invited me to her birthday party and i said i would go but then my friend ariel price invited me to hang out with her and i would rather go with ariel because last time i went to on eof of kasey's birthday parties everyone got in a fight and then we were looking at pictures from the birthday party and she said "my fourth grade part, the worst day of my life" and i dont want that to happen again so i dont know what to do.. (link)
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okay first off i think that you should tell kasey how you feel and that you would wrather go to a friends house because of what happend last time at her party!.. if you ask her and she says that she really wants you to come ask if it would be alright for ariel to come along also. and if ariel cant and you would wrather hang out with ariel tell her the truth! come back if you need more help! ** JeN **
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me and my bestfriend are in this really big fight we dont talk to each other but we used to be bestfriends the reason we're soo mad at each other is because we both liked the same guy and he ended up askin me out and i said yes and she got all mad at me bc she thought i should say no bc she liked him even tho i know if he asked her out she would have said yes too! im still goin out with this guy and i really dont want to dump him bc i really like him but how do i get my bestfriend(used to be) to respect that?! i mean she will probably just blow me off like usual soo is it even worth it or should i just get a new bestfriend and start fresh there?! i really hope u can help me with this! i really am confused! thanks sooo much u rock my world!!!!!!!!
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okay.. first dont worry i really think that you should be going out with this boy if you like him if she was really your bestfriend she //would// respect that!* so you have to learn to choose who your real friends are. it can be really hard! but that is your decision if you blow off this girl then you may not have a relationship with her anymore once you give up a friend they are hard to get back.. so i would hold on to her! hope i could help you some! =) ** JeN **
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hey im the 1 who wrote that im going to jackson and when it was the last day of school i told every1 that their still my friends and i still want to hang out with them and especially this one girl! well i like this boy now at jackson and she found out and now she likes him and went to the movies with him and with all my other friends and she didnt even invite me when i invite her to everything! what should i tell her?
help me plezz! (link)
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yea that is really great that you still want to hang out with your other friends.. and i understand taht you like this boy! ` this girl// might just like him because she is trying to make you mad..dont let this get to you cause you kno what if you make it look like you dont like this boy she wont like him anymore cause she will kno she didnt make you mad! so that would be my #1..i know what it feels like to not get invited to something that everyone else does so dont let taht get you mad.. cause everyone is going to forget about it so they wont be talking about it as much and it wont hang out with ya! hAha! =) but if you want to talk to her i would tell her that you dont really like the way that she is treating you and tell her how you feel. like how you are getting left out and how she likes the same guy! ask her why she is doing this to you and this might really help what it going on! dont let this ruin your time and JACKSON because JACKSON is the best school ever!!! hope i helped some if not come back again! * gOoD lUcK *
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I have this friends we've been friends for like 3 years now!..and we hang out all the time were like best-friends!-but she alwasys copies me!! with everything! what i do what i put in my profile what i say! who i like who my friends! I can't even take it anymore!..at first I didnt really care but now its getting out of head what should I do? (link)
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heyy!.. i think taht you should talk to this /girl\ and say heyy this i have noticed that you copy me a lot and i am getting kind of sick of you doing this!.. _ but you dont have to say this in a rude way you can say this without being rude;)_just remember tell her you are still best friends but just tell her you dont want her to copy you as much and i am sure she will calm things down and not let it get out of hand..you may even want to put her in your profile if you dont already have her in there because just remember this girl looks up to you and that is why she is doing this and if she knows that you like her she will stop cause she was trying to get your attention by doing all these things she really wants you to notice her!.. come back if you are still having problems hope i have helped you some! =)
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ok so theres this girl and i really like her as a friend but i dont think she thinks of me as a friends i think that she is just using me to copy all of my stuff and i dont like it!! she always askes where did u get this and this and this and all this other stuff that i want to keep to myself! she always goes behind my back and says stuff to my friends that is not true! she never likes to invie me to stuff with her other friends and i really dont like it help me out !! o and u no who this is! (link)
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yes hi *****! i think taht you should talk to this girl about how you feel like how you dont appreciate her doing things behind your back!.. and if that doesnt work tell her that you want a break from her and go hang out with different friends/ friends that you enjoy being around and ones that you can trust!.. hope i helped you at least some! ;)
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Im going to jackson next year and i am soo scared that no1 will like me !! i dont no if the ppl will think im crazy about what im wearing or what my hair looks like or anything!!! im going crazy and i dont no what to do with frineds!do u think they will like me or hate me or what!?!?! help me out plez! (link)
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wow! i go to jackson too so i tink i will be able to help you out a little bit.. =) i am sure everyone will like you and you will fit in just fine! just be yourself and people will like you because of who you are and if they dont then... they are not truly your friendz! i can give you some advice tho.. i kno a lot of girls that like to wear sports clothing like adidas and nike* and girls like to wear their hair in either a messy bun which is really easy or in just a plain pony tail> there is nothing to worry about! you will fit in JUST FINE! i am sure everyone will like you!.. well i hope i have helped some if not come back_*
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hey its me again who wrote!>>>well during school I was bestfriends with 4 girls we were like all in a group and this whole summer not one of them as invited me over called me but theyre all doing things together and not inviting me!..and we were bestfriends during the whole school year but now I'm making other friends and they are so nice I can talk to them about anything and I can trust them and we hang out a lot more than I do with my other friends..but I don't know what I should do cuz I think I like these other friends better that I just made I feel like I'm happier with the friends that I just made because in our group with the 4 girls ((not including me)) we always got in fights someone was always fighting in our group but they were good friends but they never even talk to me online anymore never invite me to do things with them never even call me nothing! idk what I should do!...
*H.E.L.P!*
yeah its me again who wrote ^^that and you said>>
but you cant totaly ditch these 4 girls cause if you totaly let go then it will be really hard to get your friendship back with them (link)
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your solution is very bright you should just move away slowly or you can talk to them and say that you have found some new friends and that you would like to hang out with them more often
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well during school I was bestfriends with 4 girls we were like all in a group and this whole summer not one of them as invited me over called me but theyre all doing things together and not inviting me!..and we were bestfriends during the whole school year but now I'm making other friends and they are so nice I can talk to them about anything and I can trust them and we hang out a lot more than I do with my other friends..but I don't know what I should do cuz I think I like these other friends better that I just made I feel like I'm happier with the friends that I just made because in our group with the 4 girls ((not including me)) we always got in fights someone was always fighting in our group but they were good friends but they never even talk to me online anymore never invite me to do things with them never even call me nothing! idk what I should do!...
*H.E.L.P!* (link)
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you can try talking to your friends that are supposably leaving you out and and talk to them about how you feel..and see how that turns out like with them playing with you and not leaving you out! but you cant totaly ditch these 4 girls cause if you totaly let go then it will be really hard to get your friendship back with them..if you have found new friends that is great that you feel happy with them too but you cant be attached to them you have to spend time with everyone which may be a really hard thing to do! i hope i have helped you at least a little bit if not come back! thanks for sharing with me!_*
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I have this friend who is really nice and we been friends for 5 years but one day at the mall i saw her and she was with a new friend and she was being really mean and tellin me to backoff and leava..i love her a lot i didnt want our friends ship to come apart what should i do? (link)
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well..you can take a break from her and she will start to get sick of this other girl she is hanging out with soo.. you can do that or.. talk to your friend about how she is treating you.. and you fee like trash! and that is not how a true FrIeNdShIp should be. so she might not truly be your friend! but remember if you totally let her go.. you might lose your and her frienship for good, but if that is the way you want to go that is your choice.. i hope i helped you a little bit! =) if this is not working come and talk to me again!
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