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Heyy every 1! My name is Megan i live in a small town in Massachusetts. I love giving advice to people, but only about the topics that are really interesting. For example lovelife and basically relationships. I don't want to be bored while giving advice. So only for interesting subjects. I have many problems myself in those topics. So I would like some advice as well.

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I'm 14.
To make a really long story shorter, my bff...Jane. Has an abusive boyfriend, also, she's only 13, which makes it even more weird. She's going out with a 15 year old.
And she says I'm the only one she told.
She says he doesn't like beat her up, he just hits her a lot..
I never noticed, but recently she's been wearing long sleeves. Because she's actually BRUISED.

But, Jane says she really has it under control, and doesn't want to break up with him because she apparently realllly likes him. And she says he likes her, but..

I said if I were her I would break up with him.
Then she said something like that I didn't know what love was, so I couldn't say that.
I've never really been in this kind of situation before.
Do I tell an adult?
If you were me..what would you...do?
ugh, I'm kind of confused.
And I want to help my friend.

Hmmmmm... this is so difficult. I'm trying to picture my bff like that. Ok I got it. I would tell my mother if that didn't do anything then I would tell her mother. She would be upset (your friend), but it seems like you really care about her and don't want her to be hurt, so do what you think is right. I'm just saying what I would do. She might be mad for a couple of days, but eventually she will be happy you did it (I hope).
Good Luck
I hope I helped at least a lil bit! :-)

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okay so it seems as if im loosing one of my bestfriends because her other bestfriend & me dont get along very well but then again we never talk. it never used to ruin our friendship but ever since my bestfriend found out that her bestfriend was about to be heart broken she has been just taking care of her. she barely talks to me anymore unless i talk to her first. and im not sure if i should tell her how i feel stop talking to her for a while or just let it go.
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help me please!!

Ok. Well don't worry about it right now. She'll come around. When it's all over you to should be fine, but however if nothing happens i encourge you to talk to her. You might want to wait to talk to her until the whole thing is over.

I hope I helped! :-)

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