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Q: Ok! So my friend liked this guy(let's call him Edward)first. She liked him first and EDWARD asked her out first, but she didn't say anything because she didn't like him. Now I like him because we spend a lot of time with eachother. Now she likes him again and I'm not sure if he still likes her. What should I do. Please answer soon!

Hi this is DORKALICIOUS! I think that you should ask EDWARD to the dance. On the 9th. Ask him soon before SHE does. Hope I helped see you tomorrow...

Q: 15/f. I have a conflict with my best friend, who is 14/f. First of all, I am not your average teenage girl: I'm artsy, I would like to become a professional musician, I've never had a boyfriend, and I don't consider shopping a hobby. My best friend is the typical prep. I don't have a problem with this at all. My problem is that she is always telling me that I need to get a boyfriend or a date to whatever formal, or that I need to be more like the average teenage girl. But this isn't what I want at all, and I am completely happy with myself at this point in my life because instead of concentrating on boys, I concentrate on what I love to do: music. So it seems as if my best friend is trying to control me. Lately, she's obsessed with having a boyfriend, no matter who it is. And that's her business, but she drags me into crap like that. I never give in to her controlling manner, but it gets freaking annoying to the point where I don't even want to be around her anymore. How can I tell her to not be so controlling, yet still keep our friendship? Thank you!

If she really was your friend than she would want you to do whatever you want. If she continues I would rather you look for a new friend that like's you with or without a boyfriend.

Q: i know you get a million of these stupid friendship questions, but who cares. this ones pretty importantt.
14/f
my friends & one who is my BEST FRIEND. tottalyy ditched me. i mean, they keep doing it. like, they all went to disney princesses, well of course i wouldnt wanna go to that, because im not some 4 year old. but, id still like to be asked..yano? anyways, like. it gets me so mad. & thats basically my group. i have like 4 other friends. but those people arnt really my best friends. & like, they dont even like the one girl, they just all lost there best friends, & so there using my best friend. they actually hate her. there so fake, they say stuff about her 24/7. & so shes ditching me now, to hang out with these fake people. & its like.. if i told her they dont really like her.. she wouldnt believe me. she'd turn it around & say that im just jealous, or something stupid likke that.

& idk. like this is kinda confusing i know, & its about to get a little more confusing, but if youve followed along this far, then..yay you! but anyways, they told me a week ago, that they arnt hanging out with me, because im too busy with all my public friends & all the boys. & i dont care about talking to them anymore. [i hang out with reallly popular kids at the public schools.]

& gr. its just retarded, what should i do?
should i try to tell my friend there fake?
or should i get evidence somehow that its true?

If they were cold enough to ditch you maybe they're not really friends. If i were you I'd get a new group of friends.

Q: I'm switching schools, because I can't stand my friends. There so stuck up & fake. & I just can't put up with it anymore. Anyways, this will be my last week there. So, I really wanna make an impression they won't forget. I wanna show them I'm so much more then what they expected. & that they can't treat me like that.

Any ideas on payback?

Well in my days I have done some payback myself. My best one was ( when I had gym ) I had given the most plastic girl in the whole school a piece of my mind. I gave her a towel trying to be all nice and she took in her stupid way. Only thing that she didn't know was that is was a green towel abd on bothe sides I had out some green ice cream and she wiped all over her face. Even though it was Senior year I was the most remebered girl until now.

Hoped it works out for you.
- Dorkalicious

Q: okay there is this guy i like and i'm kind of freinds with him.....i guess let see what you think. okay well i have talked to him alot on aol instant messageing but he won't ever talk to me at school and he asked me if i like him on aim and i said yes and all he does it stare at me and all of his friends talk about me and him and his freinds stare at me at lunch but always try to play it off.....i don't get it why doesn't he tlak to me at school and why does he stare at me all the time?

The boy likes you a lot. His freinds talk about you and him a lot because they're giving him confidence to go up and talk to you. In time he will come up to you in person and will always want to be with you.