I am an 18 year old girl who loves to give advice. My advice will be direct at teens though, since I am still a teen myself.
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There's this guy, who moved to my school not long ago. We started talking as friends and we exchanged numbers, we still continued to talk as friends until our conversations got abit more flirty, he would call me “princess” he basically made me feel really special. I started to really like him, so I told him. His repsonse was “I'm too busy for this” and when I asked him what it meant he would say “I'm just too busy for all this, I can't be bothered” so I was left confused, he told me to meet him to speak face to face but then said something came up. I left it for about 2 weeks, then I sent him another message, asking him why he had made me feel special and then just dropped me all of a sudden and how much he meant to me. He replied with “I feel the same, we should be together” I replied saying “I really want to, but I'm scared” obviously I was scared in case he led me on again, then he replied saying “that wasn't me that was my mate” I continued to send texts after texts after texts and he wouldn't reply, but he would smile like nothing happened at school when I saw him :( and he still does now. I left him too it, weeks went by and he still always glanced at me from across the room and gave me a smile, some days I would smile back and some days I would be that angry and upset on what he's done to me, I looked away. I sent him another message the other night over the interent because I've just left school and I obviously won't see him as much, I may probably bump in to him around, but I said “I probably won't see you again, or as much anymore so I thought I'd just tell you that I do have feelings for you” he didn't reply, but definitely was online. I don't know what to do, this guy means so much to me and it really hurts. How should I react if I see him again? I've not seen him since that message the other night, what happens if I bump in to him? I can't honestly confront him to his face, I just don't have the courage and it's really really hard. Please help! Thanks. (link)
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Sweetheart, it's clear he's only playing with your emotions. I would steer clear of him. Delete him off your social networks and everything. You deserve better.
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I'm commuting to school next year as a college freshman and am worried that I won't make any friends because I won't be living on campus. What can I do to make a lot of friends even though I won't be living on campus? (link)
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Join Clubs to find people with the same interests as you. Get a job. That will help. Be yourself and be polite.
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well, me and this guy have been like close friends for a while, im 13 and he's 16, he asked me out on a date and i dont know wiether to go or not, there is a couple who are going to be there but im going to be sitting next to him and i think there gonna be sitting somewhere else in the pictures(movies), i was thinking of going but he said we could always munch(snog) if im up for it, i havent agreed to go of anything yet, but he says that he likes me and everything, should i go or not?(oh i do like him back but im wondering what yous think about it) and my bestfriend thinks i should because he is such a lovley guy and very good looking, its just the slight age gap? (link)
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Honestly, the three year age gap worries me. In my experience boys that age are mostly after one thing. So, you might want to say no to the date at least until you are older. because this just doesn't seem right.
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