Well.. my name is Diane. I have dirty blonde hair with some red in it. I'm about 5'4" and I have green eyes. I like to figure skate and play hockey. During the summer I play softball, and this season my team, the Blue Sox, took first! Way to go ladies. I like to hang out with my friends, be on the ice, shop, sleep, talk on the phone and internet, watch tv, go to movies, and pretty much do whatever is fun! People say I give really good advice, so I decided to make one of these things. I also like to read and write poetry.
Website: Xanga
E-mail: allstaricesk8er@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Wichita, KS
Occupation: Freshman at Maize High
Age: 15
AIM: DaRe2DrEaM5889
Yahoo: allstariceskater2002
MSN: allstaricesk8er@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 28, 2004
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Well here's the deal, Ive known this guy for about a year now maybe longer. I really like him but he's stuck on this other chick. The girl has told him that she only wants to be friends and nothing more, but he is still hung up on her. Everyone has told this boy I like him, hell I've told him. He still refuses to take the relationship to another level. What do I do? Do I wait a bit longer to see if he comes around or do I more on to the other boys that I can get no problems or questions asked? Please Help!! I want to be happy! (link)
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Well... I've been in this situation a lot, and it's not fun at all! You have been doing the right thing about telling him you like him..so good job on that. It's good that you are keeping your sights on him, but you're not being fair to yourself here. Push him aside for awhile, and focus on your happiness only for a couple days. Go out somewhere and see what other guys are like. Who knows, you might end up finding someone better then him. See, by only focusing on him and waiting till he comes around, who knows how many great opportunity with other guys you are forcing away. So lay low with this guy for awhile, and see what the other options are. Still be friends with this guy, and when he sees that you are with different guys, he will realize how incredibly awesome you are! He will so want you then, but it may be too late for him though. You could have someone new and completely cool. So... then it will be his loss! Don't sell yourself short. Go out and meet new guys. You are young and fun so go show the world and have fun with the dudes!!
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Ok there is this guy that i have liked for a while and we have been dating for a couple of weeks but he wont ask me to b his girlfriend and i dunno how to talk to him about it i think hes scared ill hurt him or sumthing what do i do
sighned,
i want him (link)
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Well... it's good that you've been going on dates with him to get to know him better. At this point, all you can do it get to know him better and soon enough he will realize that you aren't going to hurt him, and if you do, you wouldn't do it on purpose because you like him. Once you get to know him better, you'll be able to talk to him about anything and it won't be a problem at all to explain to him that you like him and that you will do your best to not hurt him. So.. just do your best to get to know him better, and the rest will come on it's own! GOOD LUCK!!
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