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i have a real big problem.. my best friend cuts herself.. she doesnt seem to think that theres anything wrong with it. but there deff. is. and the reason she does it is bcuz the kid she likes isnt going out with her but he likes her. and i keep talking to her telling her that she needs to stop bcuz shes gona end up killing herself one day. and she keeps saying i know i know im gona stop. but she never does. and she told me not to tell her mom or any guidence counclers or anyone. how i can help her stop hurting herslef without telling anyone about it?? (link)
I cut myself but I'd never kill myself, I do it out of anger the pain just feels good, but I don't do it as much as my friend used to. At one point it got really scary. She came to school with cut mark across her chest, up and down her arms, a star carved into her hand, and on one knee she cut the words hurt me, and on the other knee it said kill me. I decided it was out of control and just left a note on the guidence counselors desk one day at lunch. And ya know wat it didn't work, my friend just told her she'd stopped awhile ago. Best thing to do is confrontation. I just went around telling a bunch of Shannon's friends after a while she stopped because she was tired of being told off. Hope I helped.

Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict


Okay..well i was at my Friends house and it was me and Amanda ..amber an ashley...an we were all at amandas ..then amanda feel alseep so my 2 other frineds stole stuff from her and now my Best Friend i thought i had hates me becasue she thinks i stole from her and now she dont trust me at all and alot of my other frineds dont eaithr...so if some if you could please help me out ....thnank you

-signed
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No worrys just let it play out. Something similar happened to me, ten of my friends and I went camping at beach. The second day when some of us were out surfing someone took 15 dollars and some jewelery from my friend Gabi. At first she blamed all of us two days later one of the girls came forward and told her who it was. She never got her stuff back but she became closer with the girl who told. the theif still claims she didn't take it even though six peops saw her.
I don't know if that helps but I hope it does.

Blessed be,
Crimson Verdict




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