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I am a bit on the weird side so be prepared, but I will listen and answer questions, and spice it up with a side dish of my exquisite strangeness. Life is the way you live it!I always want to help and feel free to send any sort of questions or comments!
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Ok, wow. My friend knows this guy at our school and she likes him a lot, but he doesn't know it (He may, but I don't know.) And he's really sweet and no one thinks he's a jerk or mean or whatever. But, then he didn't talk to her for some reason and so now she's a little bit upset. Her other friends think that she annoyed him, but she doesn't know why. She says that she may of talked to him too much, but she said she did that so he'd like her as a friend more. And so she keeps asking me for advice on what to do, but I don't have a clue, so I was asking you for help. She doesn't want to ask him why he is/was (I don't know.) mad at her, because ofcourse that would make him even more angry or annoyed! Should she ask him or have another friend as him, or what?
Maybe the guy knows that your friend likes him, and he is avoiding her because he is embarrassed. Though I'm sure he has nothing to be embarrassed about, but it's a bit weird for someone to have a crush on you. Just tell your friend slow down and actually get to know him and have some slow nice chats, maybe pointless. Anyway, your friend should just go as ask him. When my friends are mad at me, I just ask. No harm done. If he goes on a long rant about what made him mad, then fine. Now you know, so it won't happen again right?
-Cat
I showed my friend how to use this website and how to become a columnist, b/c i thot that she'd be awful at it. But now ppl are asking her direct questions and not me. And i dont want to be jealous, but i'm the first one who was here and now she's taking my place. What should i do?
That wasn't very nice if you thought she would be horrible at it! But, even so, just stay on a lot and answer questions. Really think about what you say when you answer and maybe people will start coming back to you.
But still, even if that doesn't work, be happy for your friend! Just because she's new doesn't mean she can't get popular too! Besides, this is just a place to help people, not a popularity contest.
-Cat