I'm often the one my friends go to for advice and I can usually help them decide what to do.
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one of my really good friends (shes 14) has been having sex with this one guy for over a year now. she used to be going out with the guy, and not she's not, but she's still having sex with him. she's been hurt before because of this guy, and i just don't want her to get hurt again or get into a bad situation. she has b.c. but sometimes forgets to take it and doesn't read the instructions on how to make up for lost pills. i don't want her to mess up her life at such a young age. any advice on the topic would be great. thx. (link)
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Have you told her your concern directly yet?
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Ok I have an advise column on here. I try my best to answer questions and i think i do pretty well from my ratings. But some people are being very cruel and sending me things that say stuff like: I have a problem, i cant stop thinking about __my name__.... and HOW I CANT GET HER OFF THIS PLANET. and stuff like that.. and they tell me how much they hate me!!!! WHAT DO I DO?!?! I dont want anyone to hate me or anyyyyything like that! I dont have bad feelings about anyone i know... i just dont understand why people would hate me!!! ahh (link)
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Often people hate other people because they are jealous, but even more often because they have nothing better to do with their lives. Hate is not a good feeling, and it's hurting them more than you. Also, you can't have everyone like you, it's just not fathomable. It is possibly even just this one person sending all these nasty comments, also, and it sounds to me like more people like you than don't, and that's pretty good. Don't worry yourself over it, that's just giving them what they want.
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