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Hi,
When it comes to giving advice and sorting out sticky situations I have experience!! For many years all my friends have called me their 'agony aunt' and I always seem to be the one they confide in and come to for advice. Now I want to do the same for you! When it comes to giving advice though I always think of one of my favourite quotes 'I am not a teacher, I'm just the fellow traveller that you happened to ask the way' - the way I see it we're all in this together (life that is!) And we should be looking after each other and helping out however we can. I will talk about anything and don't mind getting personal. I always tell you the truth about what I really think!!

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Chandler xxx

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16/f
Me and my friend, lets call him chester, always fight. Like we are in fights every other week, or last year we where. The last time we had gotten into a fight was in august.

We are yet again in another fight. I dont think he cares about our friendship. I talked to him the other day and told him what was bothering me and all. Then he said he had to go.

The next day i asked him where that left us? if we where friends, not friends, or whatever. And he said "idk i dont have answers only ears"

I really dont know if i want to try to be friends anymore.

Im the one who always tries to fix our fights, im the one who starts to talk to him. It just feels like he doesnt care and i dont know what i should do.

Any ideas?

Hiya,
I consider myself immensely lucky to have the best friends any one could ever wish for (and I tell them that all the time) and to be honest your 'friendship' with this guy doesn't seem to be much of a friendship to me. To be honest it seems to me that you have put in 100% effort to sorting it out and he has put in none. You have done all you can, you can't do any more. If he values your friendship he will make the effort and come after you and if he doesn't he was never a real friend anyway. Try not to let it upset you and stick around your friends who treat you better than Chester
Chan
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