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KaYlA,
I have two best friends, and i love them. but when i m w/ them both together they totally ignor me and carry on convos w/ just them. they don't even know im there. if im sad they don't notice. or if i uncontrolably happy they don't notice. but what makes me the most mad is that they notice if someone else comes along and they notice them. but still not me. don't get me wrong i love them. They are the best friends i could ever have, but they have problems. What do I do?!?

I think you should really talk to them and tell them how you feel about this. Just make sure you tell them that it is super important. If anything maybe just hang around one at a time so they wouldnt be about to be talking and they wouldnt ignore you. I hope it works:)

♥ KAyLa

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alright i have this friend and she takls alot behind my back... she says one thing to me and then she totally changes the story and tells ppl the other story! what should i do

Well just talk to this friend. hopefully she will be telling you the truth.

hope it works:)

*KayLa*

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i have accepted my friends choice not to be friends with me. that is fine. but what i dont like is that when i try to be nice she wont even talk to me, she is also talking behind my back and tellin ppl not to like me. what should i do about this problem?

You deffy dont deserve a friend like this. Talk to your friends and tell them your side of the story. THis happens to people all the time even myself, where if you dont like someone they go around telling other people not to like you. I honestly think that people who do this, only hate themselves, and have nothing better to do. when people do this it shows that they are the mean ones in the first place. i hope everything works!:)

*kayla

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k.kayla. here is the thing. so me and my best friend have really been fighting. she hangs out with someone else ALL THE TIME i can never get her alone just to talk to her! and she doesnt seem to care or understand how I feel. i dont want to be friends with her if she is going to be like this!! please help!!

gosh kayla your soo cool! ;)

Well...you really need to tell her to that you need to talk to her and that it is ERGENT! if you get her attention explain EVERYTHIng how you feel about it, but be nice about it. If she doesnt wanna listen to what you have to say and you cant get her attention, she isnt worth being your friend!

aww thanks!:) lol

*Kayla

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how do i get as pretty as you? i mean people say so much things but i know its not true... HOW DO I GET PRETTY?

um...lol. I am sure you already are pretty you just don't see what most people see. You can't make yourself pretty, just keep yourself clean, do your hair cute, and if you ever need to cover up some zits or something wear light make up, or put some mascara on. if guys have a problem how you look thats gay, because its whats on the inside, not what you look like. :)

*Here to help*xoxo

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my best friend and i have been fighting alot lately and now after we got into this big fight she is telling me that she doesnt want to be friends anymore. i have tried to talk to her about it but she will just not listen to my side of the story.idk if i should just let it go or if i should try being friends with her again? PLEASE HELP!

thank you

You never want to let your best friend go. Just keep trying to talk to her even if she doesnt listen. I would also give her a little time to think things over. I am sure that she will eventually relize how much she misses being with you and talking to you then she will relize you were right. I hope everything works! :)

*Kayla*xoxo

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i have this really great friend. but it seems like we fight too much. whenever we fight, she seems to always tell me stuff that is wrong about me, and sometimes its stuff thats just not right to say. she is a really really great friend when we arent fighting, but when we are, shes a total bitch. please help me. do i try to make things right, or do i need to get new friends??
please help !!

It is totally normal to fight when you are really good friends. i would explain to her how you feel and i think that would be the best way to work things out. tell her nicely about how you feel. if she is such a great friend you wouldnt want to loose her. if she still is a total bitch when you explain how you feel i dont think she is worth being your friend.

-XoxO-

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i have this "friend" thats being a real ass to his ex girlfriend, and is going to attempt to make up a rumor about her. he is a very big dumbass loser, and really doesnt have a life, also with big problems.. so i was just wondering, what i should do about this...cuz this big problem is getting in the way.

ps. if your reading this, you know who you are..and the reason why your such a dick to everyone, is because its something you LACK!! loser

dont worry this happens all the time to people, and it has started about myself before. well your friend's ex boyfriend is just mad, because they broke up im sure. guys and girls do this all the time, they will just make up rumors about their ex, because they are so mad at them because they arent together anymore. if i were you i would ignore the fact that they are going to make up a rumor. they are probably just trying to bring you down. if they do start a rumor it is pretty retarded of them ((hint to the person who might start this rumor and if you are reading this)) if they do spread this rumor just tell people the truth and it will all pass by. I have a pretty good idea who this is and if i am right you do not deserve this at all, and if anything happens with this rumor i will MAKE SURE everyone knows it isnt true and make sure it will not start and i will be there for you every step of the way!!

**Kayla Lee** xOxO

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HEy JAson! haha...i think you are so awesome! you are so caring about people! i think you and hannah are so cute together!! You are such a crazy person...but its all good! lol! its fun hanging with you! lol...glad you asked! haha! xOxO

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