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Hey Kayla! I have a big wuestion to ask you. Umm I'm not going to tell you who this is but,...yea. If you'r going out with a woman, when i the right time to make out? Hahaha. Please help me...........

well whenever you feel like you want to and she wants to. lol.

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kayla is the drums hard cause i cant play..boo

this is not travis

well.. ''this is not travis'' they are a little hard but once you learn they are so fun!!!Have TRAVIS teach you, because he is the best teacher in the whole wide world! And he RocKS at tHe drums!!!

KAyLa xoxo

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KaYlA,
I have two best friends, and i love them. but when i m w/ them both together they totally ignor me and carry on convos w/ just them. they don't even know im there. if im sad they don't notice. or if i uncontrolably happy they don't notice. but what makes me the most mad is that they notice if someone else comes along and they notice them. but still not me. don't get me wrong i love them. They are the best friends i could ever have, but they have problems. What do I do?!?

I think you should really talk to them and tell them how you feel about this. Just make sure you tell them that it is super important. If anything maybe just hang around one at a time so they wouldnt be about to be talking and they wouldnt ignore you. I hope it works:)

♥ KAyLa

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Kayla, ok i need advice really bad!! my bf has
been trying to get me to do stuff with him(and u kno the stuff im talking about!) and i really want to, but ive never even made out with a guy and im afrade that im not good at it and i dont even kno!
PLEZ HELP!!!

The only way to ''get good'' at doing something like for instance making out is to actually do it. If it is your first time im sure he will understand if you arent an 'expert'. SO just go along with it and im sure it will all work. Hope it works:)

♥*KAyLA XoxO*

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Hey Sexy,
This is a girl! May i just tell you that you are beautiful! But i am having some troubles. It is with this boy i think he likes me but i know i like him what should I do? I feel stupid asking him like hey do u like me!So what should I do!
LYL Love Helpless!

WEll talk to him, and hang out with him possibily. If he likes you, you may feel some vibes;) lol. STart flirting with him, and he might flirt back. You might just wanna be like hey so who are you liking? he might not admit it tho...you know bois these dayS? lol. WEll i hope it works!

and thanks lol:)

♥**KAyLA LEe*

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hello...well i have a girlfriend(so yes, i am a boy) and weve been going out for not too long but yeah. i want to like make out with her soime time but i dont know like where to and when and how to do it. and im afraid if i start to try to and shell like push me back and then dump me! PLEASE, give me your advice!

TAlk to her first deffinatly if you arent sure if she wants to. If she doesnt then just accept that and wait. but if she does hang out with her sometime, at a friends house, her house, or your house and just do it. Just start and you will know where to take it from there lol. Good Luck :)


*KayLA XoxO*

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Last night my boyfriend and I were fooling around and he asked me if he could eat me out so i was just like yeah whatever. And when he was eating me out i peed in his face. I was totally embaressed. I told him I was really sorry but he won't forgive me. I even told him next i give him a bj he could pee in my face but he says that im a sick son of a bitch, and won't forgive me. I really love this guy. What should i do?? HELP HELP HELP! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! I LOVE YOU KAYLA!!MWAH

lol hm...WEll im sorry about this. Just talk to him and everything, and hopefully he will forgive you. If he doesnt forgive you for something you obviously didnt try to do...hes not worth it. Idk if you would want him to pee in your face...that doesnt sound too pleasant. lol. WEll idk what else to tell you sweetie. I hope everything works! lol

*KayLA XoXO*

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Kayla, people always make fun of me , i feel like i want to die. And i never know how to deal with it , people just don't understand what i go through with never being home , people telling me im stupid and ugly and idk it seems like lifes not worth it anymore, what should i do because i don't feel comfortable talking to people about it or getting help

SiGned..... I NEED HELP NOW !

I am really sorry. This happens to people all of the time, but usually for just a period of time. You need to let them know that you can handle it ((even if you cant)) show them that it doesnt bother you, and i think it is totally pathetic when people do this. These people obviously have no life, and they arent happen with theirs if they have to go around making fun of people. Im always here for you too if you need anything:)

♥hope everything works


*KAyLA xoxO*

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Kayla,
okay there is this guy in school that i think is really nice and i can't stop thinking about him. Everything that has to do with him or anything close to that kinda thing reminds me of him! It drives me nuts! How do i get him out of my head?! I really like him but sometimes i wish i never met him cause it hurts to think about him so much! please help!
Heart_Broken

Well you cant really get someone out of your head if you like them a lot. No matter how hard you try they are just...there! i know it sucks. But maybe you should talk to this guy and possibly hang out often. If you want him out of your head that bad it will just have to happen on its own. AFter a while he should be gone. lol. idk what else to tell you besides that. I hope it all works:)


♥KayLa

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Hey, how can you tell if you really like someone?

When you really like someone you kind of just...know. Whenever you around them you get ''the feelings'' lol. You also will enjoy talking to them and being around them.

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alright i have this friend and she takls alot behind my back... she says one thing to me and then she totally changes the story and tells ppl the other story! what should i do

Well just talk to this friend. hopefully she will be telling you the truth.

hope it works:)

*KayLa*

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hey! i was so excited to start 6th grade. but once i got there i didnt have that great of a time. i was in no classes with my friends and i just felt really awkward. even though this school year is almost over i still feel a little uncomfortable becuse i have made friends, but they are not really good friends. and of course since all of my other friends were in the same house together they all became better friends and just blew me off. is there any way i can prevent this from happening again next year if the same thing happens?

That happend to me in 6th grade, but i had some friend in my house. Dont worry next year will be Totally fine! This year in 7th grade, im always like omg that person is in the other house? i didnt even know that! it seems like you are in the same houses as everyone else. You feel more mixed. You have a lot more time to spend with your friends in 7th grade, dont worry next year should be fine!

*KayLA xOxO*

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i have accepted my friends choice not to be friends with me. that is fine. but what i dont like is that when i try to be nice she wont even talk to me, she is also talking behind my back and tellin ppl not to like me. what should i do about this problem?

You deffy dont deserve a friend like this. Talk to your friends and tell them your side of the story. THis happens to people all the time even myself, where if you dont like someone they go around telling other people not to like you. I honestly think that people who do this, only hate themselves, and have nothing better to do. when people do this it shows that they are the mean ones in the first place. i hope everything works!:)

*kayla

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k.kayla. here is the thing. so me and my best friend have really been fighting. she hangs out with someone else ALL THE TIME i can never get her alone just to talk to her! and she doesnt seem to care or understand how I feel. i dont want to be friends with her if she is going to be like this!! please help!!

gosh kayla your soo cool! ;)

Well...you really need to tell her to that you need to talk to her and that it is ERGENT! if you get her attention explain EVERYTHIng how you feel about it, but be nice about it. If she doesnt wanna listen to what you have to say and you cant get her attention, she isnt worth being your friend!

aww thanks!:) lol

*Kayla

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Why do you think your soo cool. and better then everyone else... Man if you dont answer this then i know your a wimp.. WOW im mad at u UR NOT COOL! BYE BYE meanie

you know...i dont think im better then anyone at all. you just assume that, so i dont care if you think i think that, because i know i dont. and idc be mad at me, because thats pretty gay, you obviously dont know me well enough if you think I think im better then other people. whos the meanie now??you

:)bye

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how do i get as pretty as you? i mean people say so much things but i know its not true... HOW DO I GET PRETTY?

um...lol. I am sure you already are pretty you just don't see what most people see. You can't make yourself pretty, just keep yourself clean, do your hair cute, and if you ever need to cover up some zits or something wear light make up, or put some mascara on. if guys have a problem how you look thats gay, because its whats on the inside, not what you look like. :)

*Here to help*xoxo

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hello-
i was just wondering why people feel the need to have two screen names when really they only need one? it's just a question that crosses my mind. thank you....bye-bye now

signed,
why the hell do u need two screen names?

WEll..idk about other people, but the reason i have 2 screennames is because that on 1 of my sn's i have some different buddies that only have that sn, and they dont have my other one, and since you can only have 200 buddies on 1 sn, you could add more to that other sn and link them. :)

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my guy best friend just asked me out.. i told him no and that i just wanted to be friends because i didnt want our friendship to end.ever since then he like wont talk to me and has been being mean whenever he actually does talk. do u think i should have said yes to him or did i make the right decision?

thanx

If you didn't want it to effect your relationship that you already had with him, you did the right thing. I am sure he is just upset that you said no so all he knows what to do is yell. Explain to him about how you feel, and just give it some time.

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my best friend and i have been fighting alot lately and now after we got into this big fight she is telling me that she doesnt want to be friends anymore. i have tried to talk to her about it but she will just not listen to my side of the story.idk if i should just let it go or if i should try being friends with her again? PLEASE HELP!

thank you

You never want to let your best friend go. Just keep trying to talk to her even if she doesnt listen. I would also give her a little time to think things over. I am sure that she will eventually relize how much she misses being with you and talking to you then she will relize you were right. I hope everything works! :)

*Kayla*xoxo

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i have this really great friend. but it seems like we fight too much. whenever we fight, she seems to always tell me stuff that is wrong about me, and sometimes its stuff thats just not right to say. she is a really really great friend when we arent fighting, but when we are, shes a total bitch. please help me. do i try to make things right, or do i need to get new friends??
please help !!

It is totally normal to fight when you are really good friends. i would explain to her how you feel and i think that would be the best way to work things out. tell her nicely about how you feel. if she is such a great friend you wouldnt want to loose her. if she still is a total bitch when you explain how you feel i dont think she is worth being your friend.

-XoxO-

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