Hello hello! Welcome to my advice column, where I hope to answer all of your questions and concerns with an open mind. :D My real name isn't Shondrella, I just used it as an anonymous type cover up. I hope you enjoy this column and I hope to help you out with your questions. Thanks!
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ok, see im popular because im great with friends.. but i want one of my best friends to like me(i mean like me a lot)..ne ways.. i also want to have more friends and be in with the popular crowd. i don't want to because i feel that im not cool enough or anything like that, i just want to be friends with the popular crowd as well. So how do I do it? (link)
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Having confidence is a very important factor in making friends. When you are confident, you feel like you can accomplish anything in life. However, I don't think being friends with the popular kids should be one of your top priorities. I think you should worry more on finding real friends that will stick with you by your side for a long time because people come and go in your life, but real friends stay by your side. If you worry too much about being friends with popular people, then you will start trying to be like them and forgetting about who you really are on the way. I don't think people should have to change themselves to please anyone. Keep being yourself and make friends who like you for who you are and who you can be yourself around.
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