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there is this boy that goes to my skool and i used to have a crush on him until my friend called him on 3 way and she told him that i liked him and he was like HELL NO SHES UGLY AND FAT AND JUST HELL NO!!!! as you can tell 1 i was upset and 2 i was just str8 up MAD!!!so the next day at skool i told him my cousin Nikki(not a real person)had a crush on him well i pretended to be her on the foneand stuff and when we went to the movies my cousin pretended to be Nikki and he fell for it and he really liked her but some gurl thought that me and my friends were being mean and she told him what we were doing and hes mad...do you think he'll forgive me???Should i forgive him 4 what he said abuot me????PLEASE help me (link)
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I know this sounds weird, but I think it would be best for you if you forgive him. Certainly he was a jerk, and you should move on to a guy who will appreciate you instead of talk you down. But since you really are sorry for lying to him you should at least try to apologize, even if he is still mad at you afterward. Then you will feel better knowing you handled it well, and you can forgive him and be free of the whole thing, and show you're the better person. If you don't forgive him you'll only be hurting yourself by carrying around all the anger about what happened, like you were letting him say mean things about you again every time you thought about it. That wouldn't be fair to you, because you deserve to move on to something better and put all this behind you.
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