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Okay, there's Tim and Harry. Tim is really cold hearted, doesn't care about others that much, blah blah. In a cute way. Harry is overly sensative and over dramaatic most of the time. Well, they are both gay and they've been friends for a while and they're perfect for each other (in a friend way mind you)
Well, Harry told Tim something that he was apparently sad about and Tim thought it was funny how Harry was making a stupid incident so dramatic and laughed and told Jen who is a really good friend of Harrys. Then Harry goes and says "I can't believe you! You're laughing and telling everyone about a sad troy?!!" or something like that. SO basically Harry is mad at Tim and TIm doesn't care and thinks it's funny and now Harry is all not hyper and somber looking most of the time and he's ignoring Tim whom I am always with at school and so I don't get to wlak with Harry to classes sometimes now. The thing is Harry won't forgive Tim unless Tim says he's sorry which TIm isn't going to do anytime soon.
So how can I get them to be friends again?> How can I get Tim to say sorry to Harry? ( I already tired the--"But you're being so mean throwing away such a good friendship" and all that stuff and it didn't work on Tim)
Can anyone help me??? I'm stuck in the middle and it's a very awkward position for me.. (link)
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I would try remending them about all the good things that happend when they were friends. Is the reason Harrys mad at Tim like a stupid thing thats not really importantr and stop being friends over. well if it is u should be like well i cant belive your mad with him becasue of such and unimpotortant thing.
hope this helps
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{Sorry this is so long}
I have been at college for three months now, and I can't seem to make friends. I'm friendly enough and get along well with people in my classes and my roommate, people I see every day. But I haven't made any close friends. I'm very unhappy here. This was my second-choice school to begin with, I only came here because my parents told me that it was too expensive for me to go to my first-choice school. I'm getting top grades in all of my classes, but when I'm not in class or doing work (I also have a job) I feel like there's nothing to do. I'm scared to go out and talk to people - it's so awkward. I don't know how to get people's numbers or make friends. Everyone said that making friends in college would be easy and come naturally, but they're so wrong.
I've gone home almost every weekend to see my boyfriend. (One weekend we went out with my highschool friends, and I plan to meet up with them over Thanksgiving break as well.) I love him dearly and he's my best friend. I could see how this might affect my relationships with people but I also don't think that it's it. For one thing, the reason I'm going home is because I'm so unhappy at college! There's nothing to do here. I missed an audition for a group I wanted to join because I was sick, and I can't pledge to a sorority first semester (though I plan to next semester.) My boyfriend makes friends very easily and though he (like me) puts a lot of time into our relationship - we text constantly, talk online, usually talk on the phone an hour or more a day (though it's been less lately as he's been busy and I've been sick). Mark is just a naturally friendly guy, everyone likes him (hah, except for my parents). I'm naturally very quiet and shy, until I get to know people - I'm not that way with my close friends. And when I'm with people I know, I relax and am more open and friendly. I made friends in high school... why can't I do it now?
I'm starting to wonder if there's something wrong with me. I have clinical depression, which usually doesn't affect me unless I have my period - I'm on antidepressants and they work well. However I remember one of my friends who also has depression telling me that she has SAD - Social Anxiety Disorder. I wonder if I have that, or something similar - or am I just being stupid? Why can't I seem to handle college? Everyone else can do it, everyone else has at least one friend, SOME friends.
Actually, at the beginning of school, I had a couple friends I'd met at orientation, we hung out a lot and it seemed like they were going to be my core group of friends here at college. After I went home for a weekend, we got together once, maybe a couple times. And then they just stopped calling me. I called, left voicemails, but finally gave up - there was no sense in looking desparate. I had also made a friend in my building, but after an awkward night where he thought I wanted to get together with him - and I, having a boyfriend, said no - we've talked less and less. When I see these people around, they're friendly, but they never call, and I don't want to seem pushy. The one guy friend has extended an open invitation to join him whenever, but they go out to bars and clubs - not really an environment I want (or my boyfriend wants me) to partake in. The town my school is in is very skeazy, dangerous, and bad, so that's not just me.
What's wrong with me that I just get abandoned like this, or just can't seem to handle this whole college scene? I don't understand, I'm really lost and confused and a little depressed. I'm not completely unhappy - I've been working well, I have my boyfriend and our wonderful weekends together, and the hopes of transferring next year. But when I'm stuck here on the weekends - as I am now - it's just awful. Does anyone have any advice to help me?? Please?! I'm miserable! (link)
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I think that you should talk to some people in your class and ask hey what are you guys doing today and if they tell you, you should ask if yyou could go. This is what I would do and it worked in my own expereinse. I hope this helps
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Well, at my school you are able to join chorus for the second semester. I want to be in there so bad because my best friend is in there and there are also a bunch of other girls in there who I want to be friends with and stuff. We all kind of talk already. It's just that I feel like I barely have any friends anymore. I don't know what to do! I was so outgoing last year and this year I'm too shy to even get up and go turn my work in. I never smile anymore either at school. It's crazy. I don't know what on earth happened to me, but is there some way that I can just go back to normal and be happy and outgoing again? (link)
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hi, i was the oppsite of what you are going through i was shy and not out going. But i think you should try really hard to become out going again like find the reason you stopped being an out going person. it could have been for getting denied from someone you liked and told them and they said they didnt like you or from a friend ditching you for some other person or like your friends not wanting to hang out with you
I dont know if this helps but its wat might make me not an out going person
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