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I used to be best friends with this girl, all through high school, ad even middle school. Well, she had developed some
severe mental disorders, and I didn't think it was right to just ditch her because she was a little unstable sometimes. Over the years, she has gotten much worse. Were really not friends at all anymore. We used to hang out every week, and I haven't for a few months, and i haven't even talked to her in like a week. But, I'm FINE with this. I was trying tompushbher away, however I am a little nervous. She knows many secrets about me. And in afraid if I don't stay friends with her she will get angry, and tell them to people.
How do I handle this?! (link)
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ok, the only thing i can think of is to have a serious talk with her. The type of talk that will end the friendship and keep the peace at the same time. Since she may be a little nuts, you should talk to her in a very gentle yet firm tone that shows her that you dont wanna be friends but maybe "associates". the bad thing to do is argue with her, you dnt wanna piss her off. also, if you rly think she has a mental issue, it would be very helpful to go talk to her mom or close family or friend. just dnt make her feel like a weirdo. hope this helps!:]
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