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okay my bff wants to date my cousin... i feel weird talking to her now and i don't really want them to go out fear of her getting hurt. i know i have alot to do with her decision but if she turns him down i will feel responsible and if she says yes i will not be able to talk to her anymore because it would be too weird for me. what do i do?

age 13
sex female

Ok well first off you are right about you being a big part of her decision.You need to tell her how you feel bout her and your cousin going out.If she is a true friend like she says she is then she would understand and would respect your wishes.I was in the same spot and i told my bbf that i didnt like the fact that she wanted to go with my cousin.She accapted that and she asked if i could help her.I mean if your friends really likes your cousion and chosses him over you then let that be.but i would just try to talk to them about it..i mean you have alot to say and maybe they will understand why you dont wnat them to go out.Who knows you might even try and help your friend find a diffrient guy that she will like and you would be happy with her dating him. If you need anything else just ask me.

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me and ricky are in this huge fight......should i leave him or try to make things work?

ok! well i think yall should try and make it work.I mean if he talks to you about it then ya yall can be cool! But on the other hand if he doesnt come and tal to you! then you can takl to him about it! and if he tells you he dont want to have anything to do with him then just Drop his ass!

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