My name is Chelsea. I love singing and playing piano. My friends say that I am really good at giving advice. So ask me anything.
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Location: Canada
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sorry this is so long
Ok well Cole dated my cousin and I didn't put that much in there. Well they are in the on off relationship thing. He says he is done with her but she is still my cousin and still hates me for what I have done. I have realized he lied to me because she is still his number one on myspace and I still havent reached his top friends list. Well then today I was hanging out with one of my friends and I told her what had happend. Then she told me she was mad at me and told me that she has liked him for a long time. I didnt know this till today. Now everyone is saying I have been played and that he just used me. =[ so I have been stressed all day. I REALLY! REALLY! REALLY! like him. But he always plays girls by makeing out with them then leaveing them like its nothing. I have been the only one he gave anyhting to and has made out with 2 days in a row. I dont know what all this means and I dont know how to be friends with my cousin and friend again =[. I just want things to go back to normal (link)
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I totally get it. But don't feel guilty about your other friend. She has no right to be mad at you, you didn't know. You say he's your bestfriend, then why don't you confront him, say why did you kiss me? maybe he has feelings for you, but before didn't know how to express it because you were best friends... maybe he played thoughs other girls because he really wanted you, and none of them were good enough, and if your cousin and him had a relationship, and it ended thats not your fault, i know it's tough, but if you really like him, she should just be happy for you. Talk to her.. tell her your sorry but you really like him. I'm sure she will forgive you, and as for everyone else, just ignore them. I hope this helped, message me if you need more advice.
xoxChels
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I just want to know..
Is it wrong or mean to not tell my friends about me having sex?
I've never been the girl that tells her friends EVERYTHING..mostly because i just feel like its MY business. My friends are very very judgemental and they'll talk about it with other people. They have HUGE mouths. So yes, i don't want them talking about my personal business with eachother. I wish i could tell them and they would just say "Okay." and not talk about it. But..even if i begged them to do that..its just not going to happen. I really love them to death but..telling them things is not something i'm comfortable with. So, really, is it wrong that i don't tell them??? (link)
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Of course not, even though they are your best friends, if they will tell everyone, you probably shouldn't say anything, unless your comfortable with it. I have a bunch of best friends, but my true best friend, honestly i wouldnt tell him, at least not right away. i love him but i think it would just be weird. So if you don't want to, then its not weird that you don't tell them. Unless you have a problem and need someone to talk to. Sex is personal. You have a right to tell or not tell people stuff... If you ever need more advice, message me.
xoxChels
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Ever since I was a little girl, the only thing I've wanted was to be in love. Like the notebook love, mixed with twilight love. Its retarded I know, and I realize how unrealistic and "rare" love like that even is. But the hope of finding someone was the only thing that really kept me going, and now instead of being afraid that I won't find anyone. I dont even care anymore, I dont care if I end up alone, because it just doesn't matter anymore.
I used to say I didnt care, but secretly hoping, wondering, wishing I would find someone.
But now, I'm indifferent and I think I'm okay with it. I dont even want to be in love ever, I dont want anyone.
Is this okay? It just seems weird that something I've wanted forever, I no longer have any interest in. It just doesnt seem normal, who doesnt want love? (link)
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I felt that way too. I wanted love that could conquer all. Then, I got heartbroken. I gave up... I didn't even care anymore. I started thinking.. what's the point on finding love, if it only leads to heartbreak, and pain. But then I met someone. He made me believe in love again, He's my dream come true. I love him with all of my heart. Please don't give up on love. Not completely at least, I found out, when you are looking for love, and focus only on finding love, it becomes harder and harder to find. But when you focus on other things, then love will find you. Don't give up on love, just maybe focus on something else for a little while.
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ok so my best friend...we will call him Cole. Well he and I were hanging out at another friends house then we all started to lay on the bed. well all a sudden we strted to get closer and closer and then he grabed my hand I didnt think anything of it because he had done it before. Well then he started to bruch my hair back and blow in my face and rubing his nose on mine and I wanted to kiss him but I didnt. Then he finnaly kissed me. He tried hiding it from our friends but it didnt work then he sat up and gave me a bracelet and then kissed me again. Well then today a friend was over and he was all over her and I got mad as heck. Then after she left he came over to me and started kissing me and brushing my hair back then he fed me. idont know how to take it all is it a friend thing or does he care? (link)
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I know the feeling... I think you need to ask him about it. It seems as though you care about him a lot. So just ask him about it. I think that's all you can do at the moment, see how it goes after that. I wish you luck, if you need more advice, ask me.
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