Hi hi everyone! My name is Alice. That is my real name anyways. Everyone besides my grandparents call me Allie. I'm going to be 15 in March. I live in Philly, PA. I'm a Freshman and I play lacrosse and soccer. I made this site because I love helping people out with things and I will give you the best advice I can think of. My friend suggested I start this site because I give great advice. I will almost never give you a short undetailed answer. Unless it's like a yes or no question that is. Feel free to drop anything in my inbox.
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Location: Philadelphia
Age: 14
Member Since: January 20, 2006
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Well my best friend since 1st grade (im in 8th by the way! Well she has always been the goody goody type like when she goes out with guys all she does is the basics (kiss), well just this year she went out with a guy named mark and she didnt know this but he loved to go all the way just on the first date. so she goes on the first date and then goes back to his house. she didnt exspect to you know do anything. Well then they start kissing and little before u know he has hind down her pants and she didnt say anything cause she is "shy" well all through that night they were so close to haveing sex, she gave a blowjob and a handjob, but his dad came home so they didnt go any further. And I might sound over protected but to go all that way in one night i mean who knows what there gonna do. I am worried only because she was a mistake when she was born, so wouldnt you think she would be careful and not have sex?? should i talk to her about it?? or what???
please help
sincerelly,
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Tell her. She'll understand if she's been your best friend for that long. You should definately tell her. Because if they do have sex and something happens (STD, pregnancy) it could be part your fault for not talking to her. Talking to her could make all the difference.
Please take my advice.
In addition to this. DO NOT send her mixed signals about how you feel. Don't say "I'm concerned about you getting in some sort of trouble and having sex with him" and then later tell her to have a condom just in case. That's just saying your concerned but she can do it if she's safe.
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