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Okay, so I'm engaged.
I have a friend with whom I used to be extremely close. I found out, though, after I started dating this guy, that she'd had a crush on him for quite a while.
Just so there are no misconceptions, I'm going to emphasize that I didn't know she liked him before I started dating him. If I had known, I wouldn't have gone out with him.
I was talking to my fiance - he's friends with her too. From what he told me, I think she still likes him. She doesn't know we're engaged. He started to tell her on line, but she signed off before he could and hasn't spoken to him since.
She's going to find out at some point, but I'd like to tell her in a way that won't...hurt her too much, I suppose.
Is there a way to tell her without going "oh by the way we're engaged" so heartlessly?
The thing is, I could say that, but she'd never admit to me that she still has feelings for him because she wouldn't want me to feel bad.
Any suggestions?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down.
Thanks in advance :) (link)
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if she is really a close true friend, then she should have opend up straight away, oh i like him, to make you aware of the actions you may chose to persue, as a true friend she should also have told you that first, you going out, im sure she knows and deals with, may be she believes if she waits long enough, then you two will break up and she can have a chance, he may have given her some chance, or a simple typical glance, find out how she feels, and if there was anything she may think could happen, take her out, ask her to be honest, and then break the news, if she loves you as a best friend, she will be happy for you, and may be you could do a typical friend thing where you say that some one will seriously be waiting to meet you, and hat she is a wonderful person, throwing aside any possible obvious signs, congradulations btw xx
i hope this may have done something, but may be not?
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