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oka where should i start well first of all there this group that me and my friends had made up right and we was all doing fine and stuff so anywayz like few days later they said they didnt want to be in it cause it starts to much drama because there these girls at school who also have a group and they start saying stuff like we copy of them and stuff. Anways so now we dont have the group nomore, so now two of my friends told me that they were in another group which is the group that broke us apart in the first place. so now they are in it and they didnt even ask me if its was okay and stuff so they just bascally left me out. what should i do.

yeah...that's...LLLLLLLLAMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEE. just ignore your "friends", and if they don't come around, then you might want to find better friends.
♥Katie

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Me and this girl have been best friends since the first grade. And we haven't talked to each other in two years. Now we have reunited and started talking on the phone. I sent her an e-mail and asked her if we were still best friends, she said no, maybe, maybe not. Then she said she had 3 best friends. And she is acting so careless about it. Like she doesn't care about how I feel about the situation. What should I do?

well, if you talked to her in two years, she probably has made at least a few new best friends. she probably doesn't realize how important she is to you. talk to her about how you're glad you guys are in touch again, & how you think since you've been friends since first grade, you probably deserve to be one of her bffs. remember to tell her how much you CARE about her ! good luck ! ::♥:: katie

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I have always had a problem with friends. I used to have some reallygood friends but we had a huge fight and we aren't friends anymore. Right now I have only like 7 friends but only two really close ones. My question is how can I make some more close friends? I am going to be in highschool there and people keep telling me well you can make more friends in highschool and stuff. There is one problem though...I live in a small town with only one junior high that goes into te highschool. I basically already know everyone.Where do you think I could meet friends outside of school?

Thanks in advance

first of all, the really good friends that you got in a fight w/ -- you could make up with them! just like call them or apologize or w/e. next, if you have seven friends ;; but only two are close, maybe you should do stuff w/ the five friends you aren't that close to. & also if you say you already know everyone, so you can't make new friends in highschool, that's SO not true. you could just hang out w/ some people you have always wanted to be friends w/. but maybe you just haven't gotten around to it! o & if you go to a church, that's a GREAT way to make new friends! i hope i helped! just drop one in my inbox if you need any more help! ♥ katie

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I asked my friend Erica to hold my camera the other day, cause I didn't have a purse. She claims she gave it back to me, but I don't remember her doing so. Now its lost, I've searched all the places we went that day twice, and my house several times. My other friend who was with us, [ Erica stayed at her house for the week cause she was visiting us from another state] has said that she hasn't seen the camera at all, and that she thinks Erica took it because she always complained about her crappy camera. I'm starting to believe she did take it, because Erica is known for lying, and had my camera last. I've tried confronting her about it, but she just keeps denying it. Idk what to do, I'm in huge trouble if I don't find it by the end of summer.

just keep asking her: "do you have my camera? i can't seem to find it anywhere. i've checked everywhere & i STiLL can't seem to find it!" if she keeps saying no, tell your parents about the situation. they can talk to erica's parents for you. if they say erica does have the camera, & she has been lying to you all this time, then she probably isin't the best person to be a friend to. well i don't know her but stilll. just watch your back. i hope this works out & you do find your camera. [ ♥ ♥ ] katie

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This sounds kind of cliche, but I don't have any friends. I have acquatences (sp?) at school and really only one friend who goes to another school and she is going to another country in the summer. Its not that I'm unable to make friends. Most people that I meet like me and I like them, I'm quite friendly. I just never seem to become close with any of them. I used to be with a group of friends, but we're not in touch anymore. I don't want to be alone all summer, I was wondering of anyone could tell me where to meet new people that I could become friends with and stay in touch with. Any help along the lines of getting friends and keeping them would be very much appreciated. I'll rate high.

if you have acquantences, there are TONS of ways to turn them into friends ! call up the friends you aren't in touch with anymore, & see if they want to hang out with you. anyways, back to the acquantences (however you spell that!) -- well if there are people you know & you think they would make a good friend of yours, call them tooo ! along the lines of KEEPiNG your friends --if you have a fight with them or they grow apart, call them & talk it out. however, this probably shouldn't be done on AiM if you want it to sound sincere. i hope i helped! write back if you need anything else! [ much love ♥ ♥ ] katie

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Im goig to a new school next year with my best friend, she is great and ive known her forever, but im a fraid that if i hang out w/ her alot that, i wont make alot of new friends. plz help!!!

okayy.
i think what you should do is: hang out with her, but also hang out with some other people WiTH her. just like in a big group. before you know it you will BOTH have a ton of new friends! but remember : it's okay to meet new people on your own too ! just make sure you dont like exclude your friend or anything !! i hope i helped ! write back if you need anything else! - ♥ katie

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