Heyy guys..wuts up? I'm Tara and i thought these advice columns were cute so i got one..pretty cool, right? hah ask me anything, i'll give you completely honest answers.
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OkAy..im having a really tough time with friends right now..and lately its been because im "involving" myself into things..like with my friend that ive known FoReVeR..has got a boyfriend and hes cheated on her and she knows that..and i told her he doesnt love her if hes going to do that and shes telling me to butt out and lately she has been making bad desiciona in her life by hanging out with the wrong people...and everytime she does..she does drugs and a whole bunch of other things and she jus turned 14..and it's so hard because everyone is telling me to just not be her friend and they say it like its so easy. I mean i want to sit down and talk to her but i ahev so much to say that it all comes out in the wrong way or i get messed up and dont say everything i want to..i mean what should i do? go seperate ways? Thank you so much...i asked you this because you have helped me before and you are really good at advice! (link)
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aw i'm glad you liked my advice!
wow, she really needs to be careful w. the whole drugs thing. she's young! well, just make sure she knows that you're her friend and all you're trying to do is help her, not be rude. Ask her what kind of a friend she'd think u were if you didn't try to help her out! plus, you can't just break up your friendship over something small. you shouldn't just walk away, because she needs someone to help her out. Drugs and things like that are noooot good. you said that when you try to talk to her things come out the wrong way, maybe you should write her a note! no its not cheesy just try it. because you can always erase words on paper, but its hard to take something back that you said. well lemme know what happens!
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I know this is long..but please read it..
I have this friend and we are really close and i've known her for five years. She has just got a boyfriend and she thinks of him likes he's everything because she has gone farhter with him then any other guys. Lately she has been not wanting to hang out and she even ditched me on my birthday. She said sorry and i forgave her(like always) and she hasn't even tried to make it up and hang out or anything! Well a couple of days ago she found out her boyfriend cheated on her with one of her really good friends and they broke up. Then a day later she forgave him and the friend and got back together with the guy. I tried telling her that was a mistake and that he wasn't for her and she thinks i'm just not wanting her to be happy and she said he loves her. If he loves her then he would of never done that. She's just changing so much and i've told her this but she just says "people change"...i really don't know what to do..i really need some good avice! thank you for taking your time to read this. (link)
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wow tough. i would just sit her down and tell her how you feel about her ditching you for him, and then explain to her that yes you are jealous but no thats not why you think he's bad for her. You're right, if he truly loved her, he wouldn't cheat..and she can't just let him think that he can get away with it. Theres a guy out there for everyone, and she'll find one that won't do that to her. Lemme know what happens!:o)
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