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Q: 13/Male- I have this friend of mine, we've been friends for years now, and I kinda used to have feelings for her a few years ago, but then realized it was awkward that way and since then, just kinda back to liking her as a friend.. Anyway, she's 13 as well and I just found out she's dating a 16 year old, should i be slightly concerned? I mean, I'm probably thinking the worse, but it's been crossing my mind the last few days and am just kinda wondering if maybe I should be a little worried.. Most of my friends are dating 13-14 year olds.. Could there be a "reason" if you know what I mean, that he'd want to have her as a girlfriend? I mean, if I was 16, I'd probably be looking at someone around the similar age.. Just my opinion..

Thanks in Advance!
Chase
if your friend is acting the same, then there really should be nothing wrong. its natural for you to be concered with her dating someone older. I have a guy friend who is two years older then i am and we're very close. and we have history like you and your friend do. he'd want to make sure i was okay if i was dating someone. so if you see any changes in her, talk to her about it. but give her space, its her relationship. and her choice.

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