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Q: there is this guy and he is a grade older than me. we have been friends for a really really long time and i never really thought i liked him until a few weeks ago. my best friend hasnt known him very long, and as soon as i told her that i liked him..she went for him. it really seems like he likes her alot more. i dont really care because i think that we are too good of friends to go out, but do you think she is going for her because of competition or something like that? it always seems like she is trying to compete with me when it comes to guys. and...how should i get over him..whenever he is with me and her i just feel jelous for some reason...even though i dont really like him anymore...is it because im jelous?

sorry this was such a long question.
it sounds to me like your friend likes competition. you're just really good friends with this guy, but i think she told you that you like him and then went after him because she wanted someone to compete with while trying to get him. you should probable just talk to her about it. and your sudden feeling of jealous is probable because before she met him it was mainly you get attention from him and being to talk to him, but now she wants his attention. to me it sounds nothing more than miscommunication.

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I'm Sarra, I'm 15 and in 10th grade. I like to give advice and I'm generally pretty good. But my only problem is I can't seem to give myself advice so if you guys could help that would be great. Hope I'm helpful.

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