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Hello! I'm Sammy, I'm 18 and live in the Scottish Highlands. I haven't been on here in 2 years, but I'm now back!
I've finished school and currently working at a co-op convenience store. I'm dyslexic, bisexual and unsure what to do with my life currently.

I love helping out my friends and thought doing something like this would be a great, to just help out more people!

I hope my advice helps y'all!

I may be young, but that just means it's fresh advice. (;
I've gone through basically all the classic teenage problems and more, so hopefully my experiences can help you out.

Feel free to ask me anything:
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and general day to day stuff.
- Though, of course I will attempt all that is asked. (:
E-mail: samieeeey@hotmail.com
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Location: Highlands, Scotland
Occupation: Co-op worker
Age: 18
Member Since: January 11, 2012
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18/f I FRICKIN' HATE FRIZZ. I've had to deal with it all my life. It's what I'm known for, unfortunately. I have medium-length brown, thick, frizzy hair. But beneath all the ugggggllllllllyyyy frizz is some beautiful natural curl I have! So, I wanna know... Are there any natural tricks or solutions to tackling frizz without straightening or curling it, etc.? Like for example, I've heard of rinsing it in cold water, or whatever? I never have time or skill/knowledge to actually do my hair in the morning. But I'll tell you what I do, just so maybe you can tell me if I need to do something, or am doing anything wrong?

I shower at night. When I'm done, I towel dry a ton, then wrap it up in a towel while I brush my teeth, and all that other junk. Then after a while I take it out and brush it. Then I put in some mousse, but only a little. Then I go to bed. I wake up and it has this natural curl to it that I love. But it's over-shadowed by this layer of frizz floating on top of it. It's sooooo freaking annoying, I hate it so much!!!! Out of desperation, I'll try to put more mousse on it, even though my hair's dry. But then when I look in a mirror at school the frizz has popped up again, like I had never put any mousse in it in the first place. I don't know how to do my hair, or braid it, nor do I have the time in the morning. I love having my hair down, but sometimes the frizz is so bad I just have to put it up in a pony tail, which looks so plain and eeeyeuck.

I hate to be picky, but I cannot use hairspray. My friends for some reason love to play with my hair, and if it was all stiff, it would be weird and awkward, lolol. But anyway, yeah. Caan someone help me~??? (link)
I sometimes have the same problem!
I sorted mine my blow drying so it isn't curly.
If I want my nice curls I use a normal amount of shampoo and conditioner, towel dry a wee bit, not too much as that causes frizz, also try not to use mouse, then sort your parting and scrunch your hair. I can take some practise.
There are many creams you can use when you've gotten out the shower. Make sure it's conditioning and leaves no residue - you don't want greasey looking hair!
My friend has MEGA curly hair, I'll ask today what creams etc she uses and add the info for you. (:


Hi I'm a 12 year old girl. I don't wear make up but i really want to because I think it's pretty and a fun way to be crazy. All my friends have make up they get from people. But they don't really wear it. My one friend though does a ton too! How do I tell my Mom I want to wear make upwith out being awkward because she thinks idont cause im kinda a tomb boy. Please get back to me, thanks :)
-Kierra (link)
Hey Kirra,
All girls have that problem when they're growing up.
In my case, I was quite tom boy too, but I was in an emo phase and asked my mom for some eyeliner. From then on, I just wore more and more. Bought some foundation, then mascara, now I have a drawer full!
I reckon the best way would to be asking your mom. Even if she says no at first, she will appriciate that you asked her. You could even just ask if she could give you a mini make over with hers, then slyly ask if you could have some make up?
I hope this has helped a bit, good luck! x



I got measured at the mall and they gave me a bra size too big. They told me I was a 36 DD and then someone else said I was a 34 C. MY bra's never feel right. Where can I get a good bra that fits? (link)
To work out a bra size it's -

Wear a non-padded bra and measure around the band, making sure the tape doesn't slip.
(say it's 34 inches.)
(if an odd number, round down)

Then measure around the biggest part of the bust in the same way.
(say 37 inches)

Subtract the bust size (37) from the band size (34) - This gives the cup size.

0 inches = AA
1 inches = A
2 inches = B
3 inches = C
etc.

This would make you a 34 C

- Debhanams seem to always up-size, I'd advise going to La Senza or M&S if you are to go to a shop.




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