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I need to find a dress for a 8th grade tropical dance but the trick is that i also have to wear this dress to my graduation. I am a very hefty girl and I hate to wear dresses because of my size and PLEASE do critize me about my weight. I want the dress to be flowy and not tight. Any suggestions would be very appreciated. (link)
For a "hefty" girl as you put it *ehem stop being so negative your beautiful* i would say that you should go for a dress that has all over ruching. If you don't know what that is it's like those dresses that have lots of ruffly type sort of ugh this is hard to describe. They're almost like ruffles but tighter- tell me how this works out


I am a teenage girl: 5'3, blond hair, and pale.

I just want to know which stores in malls sell clothes that teenage guys consider "hot" what type of things would I buy from the store/stores. (link)
let's see here, Charlotte Russe has some amazing jewelry, Wet Seal is always amazing at hot clothes, but you don't want to appear like a slut, cause no one wants that okay? Hmmm...Charming Charlies is one of my absolute favorites for accesories, and as far as other stores like hollister, abercrombie and fitch, aeropostale, it just all works together. Also try a papaya's if you have those, and francesca's
tell me how it works out


There is a casual dance coming up and I don't know what to wear. I want to wear something that will get me attention from the guy I like.

Should I dress girlie or t-shirt and jeans.

I need to know what to wear to be noticed as hot, but not a slut. I am a 13 year old girl so I don't want to wear anything to revealing. (link)
wear a nice flowy shirt with your favorite jeans, a dangly necklace, and your favorite shoes. Dress girly and make sure you're hair won't frizz up in the heat. TELL ME HOW IT WORKS OUT


So I have had darkish brown hair since forever. For the past two years I have been adding blonde highlights to my hair. There is a lot of them so it makes my hair seem lighter. Lately I have been hating the way it looks with blonde in it. So, I have decided to dye my hair back to its original color. I am wondering how this will affect my hair? i have never "dyed" my hair before, and I was thinking it might make my hair different. So is there any bad side affects that could happen to my hair because of dying it? (link)
No, the only difference is that it will never be the exact same color as it originally was :/ but other than that as long as you get it done at a good hair salon you should be perfectly fine


Ok well I got a dress fron Jcpennys for a dance on may 7 2011 and i just wanted to know how to do my hair and makeup and what color i should paint my nails. My dress is wite blue gree and purple. he theme for the dance is a tropical/hawaiian well please answer as soon as you can cuz its cumming up very very soon. (link)
So i know this is tommorrow so i'll get right to it and hope you see this: I'd do either beachy waves (scrunch lightly and blow dry) or braids(peices of whole head, whatever you know how) you're makeup i think should be natural, but with a subtle glow, maybe do a punch of blue eyeshadow? you're nails i would say should be purple since it wont look like you're trying too hard :)


I am 13(m)and my hair is really coarse/thick and curly. Right now I straighten it every morning and its just getting to be too much work. I have no idea what do with it, any suggestions? (link)
Dear hair hysterical,

There are tons of great things to do with thick, curly hair. You can pin it back, put it half up half down with a big clip in the middle, you could do a side pony (looks awesome!), you could braid it if it's naturally curly (learn how on youtube), or you could put it in a bun and put a headband in front (good for lazy days). There are sooo many things you can do with curly hair. Another one of my favorites is brush it through to creat nice waves before putting in any kind of cream. Another one of my favorites is to braid only one peice of your hair and pin it back, it adds a little twist! Do a glamorous half up (like a snooki poof, but smaller) I love this style because it is just so cute. So that is all of my options for you (oh and they are all natural, NO HEAT!)


18 - Eyebrows realy need to be done because they are looking horrendous! It will be my first time and I'm scared because if I go to a salon I'm scared that it will be liek overdone and I dont trust myself doing it. Advice please? (link)
Dear Eyebrows,

Keep your natural arch by only plucking hairs on the bottom side of the brow, you can get it waxed, but only if you don't have sensitive skin. i do, and my skin turns really red when i get them waxed, so try plucking them first, and stop every five minutes, go do something then come back and decide if you want to do more. Some people get carried away, and this is how it's overdone


hope i helped! tell me how it works out@!


monday through friday i take showers evrey day. and i usually curl or straighten my hair so i need to blow dry it, so i use heat tamer. and i dont over do it. but they after i blow dry it it gets staticy. so then after i curl or straighten my hair i have to put in serum. so like today i blowed it out and straightened it and the roots looked so greasy i have no idea why! i think some of it is because of the blow dryer. cause when it air drys it doesnt feel staticy or sticky or greasy..whats the problem hear?? also i hear putting egg or olive oil on hair helps?? how do i go about doing so? thank you lots. (link)
Dear greasy,

I used to have this problem, and i still know people who do, i defeated this however as follows: switch to a shampoo that doesn't have as much unnatural ingrediant(weighs down your hair) also do not use conditioner, use shampoo's with conditioner already in it, stay away from oily foods (fries etc.), try not to touch your hair as much, blow dry your hair upside down, and for you, your most important issue, is don't use that much product, instead for static you just pour cold water over your wrists (sounds weird but it works!) that's about all i got :)




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